"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NEW FOLKS LOOKING FOR LTRs: Read the SoSuave Legends - POOK & ANTI-DUMP'S MACHINE

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Good post OP.

The AntiDump material is in my opinion some of the best stuff in the bible. I do think it pays to be not quite as rigid as he proposes, but nonetheless it's required reading. I bet you 90% of people who join this forum are here because they wanted an LTR at some point.

Another favorite article is the one that's something like "when the HB gets all flustered" where the guy is writing about how every once and a while you should just throw out the rules and talk about yourself the whole date. Over the years I've found that it actually works really well.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MikeOck said:
Here it is, gentleman. Valuable enough for me to spend 30 minutes compiling it into a pdf and uploading it for the world to download. It's 50 pages:

Anti-Dump's Machine PDF

Let me know if you have any issues with the download.
Thank You :)

If anyone doesn't find any problem in the compilation, I strongly suggest the moderators to put up this pdf on the DJ Bible page.
 

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Emotionist said:
Hi MikeOck,

have difficulties with downloading file. How to help? :eek:
It is still up and working for me. It is on google drive, perhaps it has something to do with your country?
 

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MikeOck said:
It is still up and working for me. It is on google drive, perhaps it has something to do with your country?
It worked days later. Have it. Thanks mate!
 

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Good post.

I've noticed that the EMBRACE ACTION section is written about calling. If we can ignore that calling is superior to texting for a second. What is a good way to frame a text date from this situation:

Meet at bar night 1 and hook up late into the night after walking around the city.

Next night: she texts asking you to come out you respond that you will be out with friends....she texts to come to bar shes at...you respond you see if you can make your way over. Never do and an hour later her friend texts you saying to come right away. You do not respond.

Next night (night 3): Hang out that night and hook up but no sex.

positive signs upon departing form one another next morning

3 days later: text hey whats up?

responds bla bla bla. what are you doing?

I don't want to linger...what should I do to bring a date option about...if that is in fact the right move? THANKS
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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