"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alright so about a week ago i was at the mall checking on some jobs. I sat down to eat some chinese food. In walks this Asian Hb7.

I walk up to her, make an observational comment, proceed to sit down and learn about her. 20 minutes later im walking with her to her job, exchange numbers and im out the door.

Fast forward 1 week to yesterday. We make plans to hang out today. I call her this afternoon and she ****ing cancels. I was pissed and i was like "alright ill talk to you later" in a cold tone and i just hung up.

She ends up calling me back like 4-5 hrs later apologizing her heart out saying she really had to go to her grammmas or some other BS. She was all like "omg i feel so terrible how can i make it up to you ill buy us dinner!" etc. I accepted.

So we arrange to chill, i pick her up like an hour later. I actually went inside and met her parents (who were real nice).

So off we go, i head back towards my place, we stop in some restaurant and eat. Then i suggest we go back to my place.

As we enter shes complimenting my place etc. We watch a movie, i didnt make a move during the film because i wasnt feeling the right "vibe". However after the movie shes all like "oh i dont wanna go home yet.." Cue going into the bedroom.

We're both laying there just talking, i got the blacklight going and we're just kinda bs'ing back an forth, getting closer and closer until out legs are intertwined and we're nose to nose.

I make my move, we begin making out, removing clothing etc. This girl had the most beautiful breasts i had ever seen (and i complimented her on them profusely). 34c on a slim little asian thats 5'4. I was like BOINGGGGG. So she is feeling on my shlong and im so sucking those titties, making out. Dry humping in like 50 different positions.

Then we just kind of layed there making out, talking, joking, laughing, while im just playing with her breasts the whole time. She was on the rag so no sexor but for real it was a nice time. TOTALLY UNEXPECTED though for real.

So basically turned a cold approach into some hot steamy action. It was nice.

Im on cloud 9 right now fellas. Those breats are gonna be invading my dreams.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There are Asians in Minnesota? :confused: I mean, other than those ugly, deformed Korean War adoptees. :D Congratulations on the conversion from C.A. to quasi-lay -- now don't go spreading bullshyt about 'sideways Asian puzzies', you whiteboy! ;)
 

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Wowie! Julian, you're the big don juan. How come such stories never happened positively to me. Girls I get # end up flaking on me. Man, must I not give up? I've done it 3 times already. The best thing I get to is eat a birthday cake offered from a beautiful stranger.
 

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Originally posted by Julian
She was on the rag so no sexor but for real it was a nice time.
Could have gotten head. :cool:

But, nice anyway. These are the things that need to be on this site more often. Even if you failed, it still would have been good.

Keep up the Cloud 9 feeling Julian.
 

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Word, thanks for the positive responses.

I was seriously pissed when she canceled because the last 2 numbers i got were flakes. And one of those numbers the girl DJ'ed ME, insisting i take her #. Funny how sh1t works.

Anyway, right after she canceled on me today, i deleted her out of my phone... was i jumping the gun? I tend to next girls QUICK LIKE when it comes to things like this...what do you think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Julian
Anyway, right after she canceled on me today, i deleted her out of my phone... was i jumping the gun? I tend to next girls QUICK LIKE when it comes to things like this...what do you think?
If it was a valid reason, probably jumping the gun a bit. If she was bs'ing like a cow, she was probably flaking out.
 

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Originally posted by Julian
Word, thanks for the positive responses.

I was seriously pissed when she canceled because the last 2 numbers i got were flakes. And one of those numbers the girl DJ'ed ME, insisting i take her #. Funny how sh1t works.

Anyway, right after she canceled on me today, i deleted her out of my phone... was i jumping the gun? I tend to next girls QUICK LIKE when it comes to things like this...what do you think?

Dude, I would try to at least get a lay out of this. Doesn't hurt to try, and keep getting phone numbers.
 

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Oh yeah definetly. see she canceled on me, i deleted her number, she calls me, we hook up at my place she leaves then i make this post. Thats the sequence of things.

Right now everything is all good, but this morning when she canceled the last thing i thought id be doing tonight is tonguing her succulent breasts.

Regardless, im going to learn to give 2nd chances. IF she is worth it.

And no doubt i WILL get a lay out of this. i know it. I had this girl squirrming and revealing crazy secrets. The whole night she was like "i barely know anything about you!" because i was being really secretive, id give her bits an pieces and thats all.

Keepin up the aura of mystery.
 

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Shyt, I don't think I've even made out with an all-the-way asian. The one race of woman I haven't been with, grats and enjoy what some of us tied up guys are missing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nice going dude This has inspired me.
im glad bro =)


Shyt, I don't think I've even made out with an all-the-way asian. The one race of woman I haven't been with, grats and enjoy what some of us tied up guys are missing.
Omfg man ive had a fetish for asian girls FOREVER. This is my first asian ever so it was like living out a fantasy.

I recommended an asian to everyone ahhaha.
 

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
Bullsh!t.

Come on now. Take it for what it is. :rolleyes:



Julian, if you are so eager to hit the Azn puss, you had better be equally willing to introduce your sister or some other white girl to an Asian man! It HAS to work both ways, or there is no mutual understanding or respect. ;)
 

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true dat

it is all about the respect- Im hapa and so I get with alot of azn honies- you got to introduce the blondies to your azn friends though or you're just being a punk- so you are an asiaphile- some of my asian friends are blondophiles or whatever you call them..hook yourself and everyone else up
 

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I just started dating a Filipina......very happy so far. She is nice, really good looking, good job. She is F.O.B. and does not seem to play some of the normal games.

any of you guys go out with Filipinas?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good **** man. Are you on ASF? or are you a Natural?

--Lan
 

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Originally posted by bud1971
I just started dating a Filipina......very happy so far. She is nice, really good looking, good job. She is F.O.B. and does not seem to play some of the normal games.

any of you guys go out with Filipinas?

Keep your Green Card and passport locked up in a safe. You are another stupid American if you fall for this whole 'foreign bride' crap again - it's happened so much there is practically a script for it. Watch out for those white Russian wh0res too - they will marry you and split your bucks too.
 

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Originally posted by Julian
Word, thanks for the positive responses.

I was seriously pissed when she canceled because the last 2 numbers i got were flakes. And one of those numbers the girl DJ'ed ME, insisting i take her #. Funny how sh1t works.

Anyway, right after she canceled on me today, i deleted her out of my phone... was i jumping the gun? I tend to next girls QUICK LIKE when it comes to things like this...what do you think?
On the database systems I work on, the system will close files that are not in use. But many times when it closes these files, it will need to reopen them shortly afterward. All the opening and closing of files creates a lot of overhead and delay on the system. So what it does is LOGICALLY closes, or "pseudo-closes" the file. It stops all activity to them and marks them as closed, but doesn't physically release the file until it either shuts down or runs out of room for files and needs to free space.

Why am I telling you this? Simple...what you should do when a girl flakes is PSEUDO-next her. Break contact, stop thinking about her, stop putting any moves on her, but don't REALLY next her. Don't delete her number out of your phone, get rid of any mementos or return all her stuff. Just mark her as "nexted" until such time when you know she isn't going to redeem herself.

I was with this girl in AC about two weeks ago. We had a great time and she was practically insisting that I call her. So I called her Thursday, voicemail, no callback. Called Friday, voicemail, no callback. Got a call from her Sunday, called her back, voicemail, no callback. Sent her a text message monday, no reply. So I pseudo-nexted her. But I left her number in my phone.

Sure enough, last night she calls back a little hoarse and says she was 'sick'. Could've even been "that time of the month" for all I know. Either way we're supposed to meet again on Friday. Would've shot for tonight, but I'm supposed to be seeing this other hottie tonight. :D

Don't burn bridges. ;)
 

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Awesome advice squirrels, wish I could have picked up that little bit of advice a few months ago. I got trashed and deleted every girl in my phone book I didn't feel like wasting my time on. Some acually called me back wondering why I didn't call them anymore but I lost a lot of women out the window on that dumb act.
 

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Actually...she's already a citizen and here in the US.....she just has not really taken on the American way of life too much. No Oprah or hamburgers.

I am having a little difficulty with the whole shyness thing. She seems reluctant to talk about anything to do with sex.

Any advice on dealing with traditional Filipina's?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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