"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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another update all is well!! we are still together and going strong plenty of passion that keeps growing! am doing all the right things to keep and grow her ibterest level and i now have her working to please me in every way an i reward her when she does well at it ... she always wants me swxually and that is key to any relationship the female must crave you and feel like you are the center of her sexual univers then all other aspects of the relationship get poistive energy from that
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Okay folks here it is the post you have all been waiting for.. THE END!! yup..

well its not all bad.. 4 months in and it was still going great but her family has decided to move to Louisiana to live for good and she will enroll in school out there... She will leave in May so thats it folks the end of a great relationship


I will not try the long distance thing or any other deal cause she is young and entering a new college and will be to far away so it would be a waste of time. I will just let her go on a good note and hopefully be able to F again if ever I see her again..

Yes i am sad but the way i see it relationships will always end some how and this way is not as bad as many other ways.

So now we are just coasting and enjoying our last but of time together. No need to increase emotions and such so i will be taking it easy with her.

After she leaves i will take a break and just live my life for a while until i feel like getting back in the chase and BS ..
 

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Okay so here is an interesting update..

Same 21 year old that i have been with for 5 months..

So ever since she confirmed that she is leaving atlanta in may and moving to Louisiana she has been gradually reducing her intensity of interaction.. Interest level is still high but each day i can feel her slipping a little more ..

We still hang out but not as often and instead of ****ing all night she will only **** 1 or 2 times... and instead of staying late like 5 am she will try to leave by 2am

I have noticed that she has become a little bit argumentative or contrary at times but nothing serious. little disagreements over simple stuff but i can tell that is a sign.. also once or twice she mentioned something abut conversations she was having with guy friends or some dude called her cute or something and hat is also a sign.

He disconnection is happening sort or erratically cause some days she will call and text and face-time all day then other days she will be totally quiet.. sometimes she will be really horny and other times she will be non sexual..lol bad sign..

Here is my conclusion:

I think that she really likes me but has always had dudes on the side who were not getting much play but since she found out she is leaving and our relationship will end soon any way she is in disconnection mode and a side effect of that is that she now sees nothing wrong with hooking up with those other dudes in some capacity before she leaves.. and i know she has started back hanging with her ho friends who are happy to encourage her to go and do ho stuff.

I can tell its all but over now but It was a very good time with her cool personality great sex lots of passion and fun but she was too young to really try to have a strong relationship..
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Good riddance. You better end it before she does. Not that it matters so much who ends it if you know its over anyway but just to save your face among her "ho friends"

it is still on and going okay... she is a typical females and prone to emotional erratic unexplainable behavior..lol she leaves in 3 weeks.. i have disconnected emotionally form her and am only staying around for sex now...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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