"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
New DJB link...
- Thread starter diablo
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
It's back
great just put it back up into the place the old DJB was and we should be just fine.
Thanks Eternal for putting up the new DJB made by you. Good going
great just put it back up into the place the old DJB was and we should be just fine.
Thanks Eternal for putting up the new DJB made by you. Good going
C
Crazykid
Guest
your welcome.
WARNING: this is not eternal, reading this may cause severe diahrea, nasuea, vomiting, prolonged erections, and in some cases death
WARNING: this is not eternal, reading this may cause severe diahrea, nasuea, vomiting, prolonged erections, and in some cases death
Snatchmaster
Don Juan
Nice.
I would like to download the bible and read offline, but the link is broken. Can someone please fix?
Thanks
I would like to download the bible and read offline, but the link is broken. Can someone please fix?
Thanks
Nicholas Hill
Master Don Juan
I will give diablo the offline DJB files soon.
Nick
Nick
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.