"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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New Dj Has Arived

Guitarfreakelite

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........ sup peoples, names dj fray, friends call me snake, just finished boot camp training, finished recovering fully of you gf dumping me becuse she "fell out of love with me" now im back fully oporational. ready to learn what i can, and share what i konw

my aim screen name is sosuaveguy i havent yet gotten a yim sn but when i do i'll let you konw and my email address is [email protected] feel free to im me or send me an email any time.

im 15 years old, i live in newjerys, im realy into music and i play guitar as my handle sugests, havent had too many gfs but i cut my way though enough phyco &!tcheS to know the deal. i found out about this site from a frind of mine who figured i could use it after my break up. i like track, chess, videogames, drawing instant messageing my frinends, i'm intrestied in phycology Nlp and hypno.. former computer nerd so know my tech stuff if any one needs help on anything..

my statas now is single and loving it.. just got out of an ltr and im not ready for another one just yet.. (give me five seconds) in the mean time my goal is just to mess around have fun being single while i stil can. im not modle but i've got the charm when it comes to meeting the ladies and impressing there friends and parents..

so if you guys dont mind, i'd like to get to konw you all, talk give advice take advice and maybe even share a few funny chix storys. if you have got aim just leave down your sn and i'll add you to my b list, if you havent feel free to send me an email. just saying hello, i'll ttyl. Hit me back, just to chat.


NEW DJ HAS ARIVED
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LikRetsam

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Ah funny man. We're gonna get along well.
AIM: LikRtsm

Welcome to the boards.
 

DB9

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welcome to the boards ...lol i liked the entrance it was original you usually don't see that

aim: aguardiente225 DB9
 

Jerky Boi

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Nice post. You don't see too many people coming into the site with a positive attitude. Welcome to the boards man :)

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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