"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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new datingsite for cheaters: secondlove...should it be banned?

LittleBigOne

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Since a while there is a new datingwebsite online in the Netherlands: secondlove.nl
This datingsite is connecting people who wants to have seks/affair beside their LTR. There are even commercials on television to promote this website!

The Dutch are pretty liberal but i think this goes way too far. Are there such websites in the US as well? What do you Don Juans think about such website? Should such website be banned or not?

Like to hear you opinion.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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plate's_empty

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well yeah, Ashley Madison.....

Anyway, I don't see how someone can put up a profile of themselves, with pictures and say....."Hey I want to cheat on my wife. Who wants to cheat with me." And not eventually get busted.

On a side note, I've had an idea to sign up for one of those sites, pretending I was married, just to see how it went.
 

Ronaldo7

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Sounds like a marvelous idea. As long as you cover your tracks nicely, this is a gold mine.
 

bukowski_merit

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If its anything like ashley madison it should be banned for being a scam. Am us well known for creating dummy profiled and messaging men to get them to buy credits to respond back.

Theres much easier ways to hook up with married women.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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