"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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New comer, need some advice please :)

HUMANrevolution

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So im currently in HS, ive read up on alot of this stuff, im one of the more confident and funny guys at my school, but I still have some AA. There are some girls that show interest in me during school. I can read their body language, and this might be hard to believe but I counted how many seemed to show interest with eye contact, smiling, touching and other things, theres 5-6 of them. They show constant eye contact and always look in my direction. Theres one girl that is extremely interested, but I cant bring myself to talk to her, and all of the ones that are interested for some reason. Its just harder to talk to the ones that like you other than the ones that dont like you. Any ideas on how to talk to these girls and up their interest level? Ive also read that the hot girls try to hide their interest but why? One more thing, when a girl sees you talking to other girls does that make them less interested or does that add to their interest level?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Whats AA stand for? isnt that for alcoholics?

Create attaction in the ones that dont have attraction yet then. Those will be easier to talk with and you need to get started somewhere. Or maybe start with the least attractive of the girls who are interested in you. Since you wont be interested in her much it will be easier to talk because you wont be worring about screwing up.

The good looking girls hide their interest becasue they know what they are doing and they want you to work for her. She knows she is beautiful so she is going to play hard to get.

Talking to other girls is always a good thing. Its only going to make a girl want you more when she sees you enjoying a conversation with another girl.


need me to explain anything in more depth?
 
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