"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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New comer, need some advice please :)

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So im currently in HS, ive read up on alot of this stuff, im one of the more confident and funny guys at my school, but I still have some AA. There are some girls that show interest in me during school. I can read their body language, and this might be hard to believe but I counted how many seemed to show interest with eye contact, smiling, touching and other things, theres 5-6 of them. They show constant eye contact and always look in my direction. Theres one girl that is extremely interested, but I cant bring myself to talk to her, and all of the ones that are interested for some reason. Its just harder to talk to the ones that like you other than the ones that dont like you. Any ideas on how to talk to these girls and up their interest level? Ive also read that the hot girls try to hide their interest but why? One more thing, when a girl sees you talking to other girls does that make them less interested or does that add to their interest level?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whats AA stand for? isnt that for alcoholics?

Create attaction in the ones that dont have attraction yet then. Those will be easier to talk with and you need to get started somewhere. Or maybe start with the least attractive of the girls who are interested in you. Since you wont be interested in her much it will be easier to talk because you wont be worring about screwing up.

The good looking girls hide their interest becasue they know what they are doing and they want you to work for her. She knows she is beautiful so she is going to play hard to get.

Talking to other girls is always a good thing. Its only going to make a girl want you more when she sees you enjoying a conversation with another girl.


need me to explain anything in more depth?
 
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