"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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New cold opener... thoughts?

locarius

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So I was thinking about all the opinion openers, and none of them really suit me, so I came up with this. It is not field tested, I am just asking for your thoughts on whether its worth a try:

blah blah need quick opinion.... How would you guys describe a 'real man'?


I think this is worth a shot because:

-Girls dream about prince charming, but the really 'together' chicks likely have a very mature, put together idea of who he is
-Pre-screens for all kinds of psychos/gold diggers
-Lots of opportunity to bust on them about various things depending on responses
-easy to lead into a ton of other topics or routines
-something that men and women should care about
-feedback on how to improve yourself
-opens them up to compliment you
- ...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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- Wierd to ask complete strangers about what a real man is... thats my opinion... but go ahead and try it if you feel you are sitting on something.
 

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Yea thats the kind of feedback I want.... any reasons people think this may not work, and something I could add to make it seem less weird.

I figured it would work best if approaching a larger set, say in a bar or something.

Maybe tell a story first, like "hey me and my buddies over there were just talking about what a real man is... I said its Arnold Schwartzanegger because he is as strong as ****, otherfriend said its brad pitt, because he can get all the ladies, another guy said Bill Gates, because he is rich and successful.... What do you guys think a 'real man' is?"
 

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seems like too fast too soon.

its a great question to ask a little LATER in the conversation.. It seems that if you just come up to a chick asking that, most of the time the girl would be like "what the ****???"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"I need a female opinion...can you knock yourself out with a punch?"
 

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i'd use that line in a later stage as a conversation opener that will lead through emotion talking/fantasy talking...
then to patterns ;)
 
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