"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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New Cold Approach

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Okay i was just at the mall buying something and I discovered this one...

I was in a rush so this was by accident but It got me another number :).

The women was looking at something[CD's] she was about a foot and some away. Just watching. Me being in a rush zoomed pass through her space. Now without thinking as always I turned to say excuse me, well with my new DJ mindset I also used this for a convo. initiation.

So, this was my new cold approach, easy and simple, almost forces eye contact, and a great excuse for a convo initiation.

Can be used almost in any situation...

Hope you enjoyed.

~Capi
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't get it.....

So your new cold approach is saying 'excuse me'?
 
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i understand, but can u elborate abit. give us an extended example
 
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No. It wasn't excuse me...

You realize when in a semi-crowded are like a hallway, some people are looking at something, say a poster on the wall...

there concentration is on that picture.

Now if your in an empty hall this would look stupid of course, so it needs to be fairly busy.

So inbetween the person who is looking at the picture is some space, maybe a foot or two. So if you cut through that space her concentration goes straight to you, and it almost forces a convo.

OF course this isn't something you can do every day. It needs to be a fairly busy place.

This is really hard to explain. Maybe I'll draw a picture.:( ..hmmm...
 
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here

see a semi-crowded hall... your the blue dot she's the red. yellows are random people.

the green line was teh path I took. where the line turns is where I turned my head back and caught eye contact...

do you understand now... you don't have to say excuse me, you can start the convo however you want. It was just an easy way to start a cold approach I found by accident and it worked quite nicely.

though It needs more field testing so far so good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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So in other words your cold approach is to step into their path
forcing them to notice you.

Simple but brilliant.

I will try it.
 
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