I just bought this double breasted top coat but I'm not sure how it's supposed to fit. How does it look? http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj120/grmstrj/IMGP0540.jpg?t=1197229379
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
new coat...how does it look?
- Thread starter Berlex
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
The coat is too big, it shouldn't go down to your knees, cover up your hands, and should fit tight around your shoulds and torso. Do a search on google for the same coat and look for images with the male models. Emulate them. That's what the coat should look like, look for someone who could alter it for you, I would, because it looks like a nice coat. Don't post that picture on myspace. and yes the jeans are too long.
oh yeah, this is what it reminded me of, no offense: http://kristel.homestead.com/files/vivi.jpg
oh yeah, this is what it reminded me of, no offense: http://kristel.homestead.com/files/vivi.jpg
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Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
^^^ wat he said. Try and see if you can exchange it for a smaller size.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
where did you get that jacket from? can you link me to the site?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Really blurry.Berlex said:I just bought this double breasted top coat but I'm not sure how it's supposed to fit. How does it look?
The Sperminator
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The coat looks fine it's suppose to be big like that but yeah the pants have to be tighter on you. They look like they don't fit you. You need them tighter and shorter.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Rata Blanca
Senior Don Juan
The coat is fine, it's you who needs to bulk up!
Solution for the pants? Why get other pants when you can...
Squat!
Solution for the pants? Why get other pants when you can...
Squat!