Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I expect some lady tips. stuff is different when there are no males and 40 malesPiss on the walls and growl at everyone who approaches your space.
Honestly though, what kind of advice are you expecting here?
What kind of class? How do you know there's gonna be mostly 40 year old males lolOk so im going to new class next week. THere can be girls but mostly males and about 40 i think lol.
How do I make alpha impression? ps im the totally opposite of alpha
lmao not 40 year old males but 40 malesWhat kind of class? How do you know there's gonna be mostly 40 year old males lol
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah they are even more than me. But the thing is i feel better than the lecturer its like wasting whole days to learn nothing because much more updated IT stuff is on the net. I will have cheaper gym and bus ticket thoIt class. Dont worry everyone in there will be just as much of a beta cuck autist as you are. You will fit right in!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yee man there was some guy who disrespect teacher. I dont get such guys, why be offensive..Get rid of the mindset of being alpha. Adopt the mindset of being confident. Be confident in class by asking questions when you don't understand something. If the teacher asks for a volunteer to come up to the front for something be the first one to volunteer. Show the teacher respect so long as they aren't a jerk or b!tch to you.. If you have to pi$$ get up and go pi$$; don't wait for a break or ask for permission. if you are thirsty go get a drink. Throw out some humor whenever you can. Crack a joke about the class material if you think of one so long as it's clean and again not disrespectful to the teacher. This is how I take classes as an adult.