"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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New Car - which one would ladies prefer?

Duracell_Bunny

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I've been offered a company car, and the choice has been brought down to just two.


New model 3 Series Coupe

RX8 R3

Although the Mazda would be more fun but has a boy racer stigma to it, I'm thinking the beamer has more of a fasion statement and would be a lot more cosy. But then again, I'm still young and a sports car is tempting. Grrr.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Those are company car choices? You lucky bugger...

Def the beemer, unless your game is that type of thing to fit the boy racer profile. The mazda does look like a boy racer, it's not a stigma it's that style.
Plus girls that don't know cars too well will assume the BMW=$$$ and might not know what the mazda is.
 

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NO! The question should be what do you prefer?
 

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I agree it should be what you prefer but I also agree that BOTH cars are horrible...

Mazda is a piece of craap and the ONLY bimmer that should be on the road are the M3's through the M7's.

If you get an "I," Series...your a joke to REAL bimmer drivers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sir Psycho Sexy said:
They are both pretty sh1tty cars though, sucks for you, lol....
For the record I was just kidding, im not some car prick.
 

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What kind of question is this? Beemer all day. Even if it's not an M3. I'd take an Audi over both of those though.
 

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First of all: Why are you concerned about which one the chicks would like better??

Secondly, a chick could answer that one better anyway.
 

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Duracell_Bunny said:
I've been offered a company car, and the choice has been brought down to just two.


New model 3 Series Coupe

RX8 R3

Although the Mazda would be more fun but has a boy racer stigma to it, I'm thinking the beamer has more of a fasion statement and would be a lot more cosy. But then again, I'm still young and a sports car is tempting. Grrr.
Are you working in financial services?
 

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never buy it one which will get more chicks - you will be dissapointed, choose on which you like best
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Duracell_Bunny

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I have been completely undecided and just couldn't make my mind up.

Yeah, some car manics think there crappy and I would prefer an M3 but there are budgets to keep within.

Think am gonna go for the beamer but with the M sport package in white.

Although this would mean a four year lease. But meh, anything is better than my clapped out 1.4 hatchback.

Nah, I'm not in the financial services. I work as an online retail and marketing consultant.
 

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The beemer. The rx8 has serious maintenance issues. every time you start the car you HAVE to let it run till the engine heats up. you need to occasionally shift at very high RPM to burn off carbon deposits. miss one maintenance period and the car might get ****ed.

and although its a 1.3 it gets 13 mpg and is a ridiculously heavy oil eater.

honestly, to put it this way, it's like choosing between a classic lady, who will take care of you, and occasionally turn some heads, and a Girl who looks hot sometimes, constantly needs your attention or will throw ****fits, and loves eating at all you can eat buffets.

but in the end its your choice. glad you decided BMW.
 

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Duracell_Bunny said:
I have been completely undecided and just couldn't make my mind up.

Yeah, some car manics think there crappy and I would prefer an M3 but there are budgets to keep within.

Think am gonna go for the beamer but with the M sport package in white.

Although this would mean a four year lease. But meh, anything is better than my clapped out 1.4 hatchback.

Nah, I'm not in the financial services. I work as an online retail and marketing consultant.
Either way, make sure you enjoy the car.

Sounds trivial what I am saying, but what I mean is, don't focus so much on the *attention* the car is going to get you, but just enjoy the car itself.
 

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They'd prefer the one you choose because you chose it, not choosing one because you think girls would prefer it.


But otherwise, the BMW; looks more manly. You should probably look into reliability and costs etc to help you decide though, tbh.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So who is paying for the damn thing, you or the company?

In any case, BMW here no question.
 

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what kind of comparison is this? its like asking should "should i **** the hb10 or the hb6?"
are you aware of the price of an m3 and the price of an rx8?
Yea, very far apart.
 

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Yup, well aware of the cost of an M3.

Its the new 3 Series Coupe M Sport I'm going for - its this image I linked in my last post, (looks very much like an M3) but I'm going for a standard engine. Its a looks over performance thing. It will be much better than what I have now anyway. I go on track days in the summer and hire a fully track prepared track car to go fast :D

The company pays under a business lease (much more cheaper than personal, + no tax).

Its down to the monthly cost rather than the value of the car, works out cheaper for a longer contract, hence this one would be a 4 years instead of the common 3.
 

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Hah, basing an auto purchase on what the ladies would think? Good one.

Pick a car based on what YOU think.

I got the most ***** of my life when I was driving an undersized maroon/pink car that could barely pull 150km on the highway.

No one I knew cared; the girls didn't care as long as it was clean and didn't smell.
 

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lorekeeper said:
The beemer. The rx8 has serious maintenance issues. every time you start the car you HAVE to let it run till the engine heats up. you need to occasionally shift at very high RPM to burn off carbon deposits. miss one maintenance period and the car might get ****ed.

and although its a 1.3 it gets 13 mpg and is a ridiculously heavy oil eater.

honestly, to put it this way, it's like choosing between a classic lady, who will take care of you, and occasionally turn some heads, and a Girl who looks hot sometimes, constantly needs your attention or will throw ****fits, and loves eating at all you can eat buffets.

but in the end its your choice. glad you decided BMW.
Good, somebody that actually has some idea of what they're talking about. The RX-8 is fairly gutless and can be a nightmare as this poster described.

I personally would spring for a 3 series sedan way before I would get the coupe. The styling on the 4 door, especially after the facelift is far more aggressive and looks much better than the bland coupe in my opinion. It's more practical as well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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