"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

New blood entering....

FruitMasterFlex

New Member
Joined
Aug 29, 2012
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Good evening, My name is Mitchell Sterner, my friends call me Mitch, Moonshine, or Fruitmaster. I am 16, about to be 17, and I guess you could say I'm one of the worst DJ's possible. Looking back, I have made some really bad mistakes, and some really good ones. First things first, I'm going to tell you all, straight up, how my life have progressed, and not act like I'm hot stuff, when in reality, I'm just a lucky fvcker.

Alright, So, Allow me to give you a picture of who I am. I'm 6"3, 176 pounds, I am tall and lean, I don't have the most grown up face, but if I was to grow a beard, I would look about 2-3 years older then I am. I'm also pale as the moon, hence Moonshine. I am going to be a junior, I am a swimmer, and I was 3rd in the state for my event this year. I am NOT a virgin, I lost my virginity to my girlfriend at the time, and let's just say she's not the most attractive girl you could meet, probably a 5 or 6 on a good day.

So in short, girls find me attractive, but I have confidence issues, I fail to see what girls find interesting in me. And I only started catching onto the art of spitting game recently.

My issue is simple, I overthink everything, and underthink my actions. I have the POTENTIAL to get laid, ALOT. But I am never able to capitalize on the opportunities I am given.

So first things first, I want to start from groundzero, I want to find the best information this forum has to offer and use it to become a "AFC" (Hopefully I used that right, I still can't figure out what it means.) Links are appreciated, and I am willing to answer any questions you ask.

Cheers,
Moonshine
 
Last edited:

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

apocolipto

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 14, 2012
Messages
400
Reaction score
1
If your beginning, just talk with girls confidently and go out and talk with new girls everyday. Confidence is game :)

This is now your journal?

Apoco
 

FruitMasterFlex

New Member
Joined
Aug 29, 2012
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Alright, So these journals will cover my life, And basically give you insight into my decisions. 100% truth.


Today, I had alot going on. I had two girls lined up, and they both flaked. First off, I had Westville, who is a 7 or 8, that is one of my better friends who said she was into me and wasn't looking for anything besides fun. She got sick, and wasn't able to hangout cause her mom didn't want her to come over when she didn't know me. So Then I had School-buddy, who is a 7, she is my partner for keeping on track with school, and she was interested in me aswell. But the thing is, She's a virgin, and I was planning on taking that today, and she flaked out at the last minute cause of family stuff. both of these excuses were confirmed so I'm not that mad, But I'm kinda pissed that nothing happened. I made plans with Westville, that I would come over tomorrow if she felt better, and I will hold true to that, unless I get a better offer from School-buddy cause she lives closer. that's just about all that happened today, I told school-buddy that if she can get her mom to leave I'll come over, and she said she will let me know. That's just about all that happened.
 

FruitMasterFlex

New Member
Joined
Aug 29, 2012
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Another note, I might get the chance to get with Westville tomorrow, or I can wait till monday, and try to go to a party with her. Unsure of what to do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

apocolipto

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 14, 2012
Messages
400
Reaction score
1
Stop worrying so much about what your gonna do, and let things happen. Go out with your bro's and meet ppl. Obsessing over two chicks won't help much.

Apoco
 

FruitMasterFlex

New Member
Joined
Aug 29, 2012
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Okay, Makes sense, none of my better friends are single, which isn't really an issue, it just complicates things.
 
Top