NEVER Settle for less

[Production6257]

This is a lesson that I learned the hard way. It started for me last semester when I was starting to get desperate for a girl. I was going through some tough times and my self-esteem was pretty low, and I began thinking that maybe instead of aiming too high, I should just settle for a not-so-hot girl. So I hooked up with an ugly-a$$ girl with an even uglier personality and I must have been going crazy because I told my friends that this girl was great and I was thinking about asking her out. Well I finally came to my senses over christmas break and realized that this girl was definitely not up to my standards. First off, it made for a messy situation. (Here's that story: - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=116106)

But even worse, I lost a lot of respect from my friends when they finally met this girl. She was still into me and overstaying her welcome every time she came over. The worst part came last month when she came into my room when I had 2 potential prospects in the room (I found out a while before that these girls were kind of into me), and she wouldn't leave and ended up saying "Can I spend the night?" (this was actually the second time she spent the night). Well the hot girls left and I was stuck with this tall, gangly b!tch in my bed all night. Not only did I lose a lot of sleep that night, but I also lost any chances I had with those girls.

What I'm trying to say here is NEVER SETTLE for a girl because you think you have to. It will only lead to misery and a lot of crap. Get out there and don't be afraid of the hotties.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

I would rather be alone for the rest of my life then do an ugmo. No offence.. I have a couple times when I was really drunk.. I felt really bad about it too. Its terrible you just feel dirty.

 

[Production6257]

Yea definitely. Every time I see her I just can't believe that I let myself stoop that low. It really hurt my chances with other, hotter girls badly because now that I have associated myself with a low-value girl, in their eyes my value goes way down. The hot girls from my dorm stopped coming to my room and just say "hi" instead of sparking conversation like they used to. It was just an all-around blow to my confidence.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

I'm pro at rez **** man. I had that place on lock down. Heres what you do. Basically your in an extremely social environment. What you need to realize is not everyone knows eachother. Even what you are now is changable. Start by talking to EVERYONE you see who you know and don't know. Make it your goal to know everyone by name and have multipul convos with everyone there. Sometimes take a walk and see whos partying and join them. This will give you major social status and well to be honest once you do this for a couple weeks you won't have much problem with women if your approaching hotties. Remember your approaching them to see if they are right for you. When you approach anyone it is always as a friend to introduce yourself to them. Most hot chicks play games anyways so they are basically a waste of time.

 

[Jay Jay]

Turn adversity to your advantage.

You didn't lose those two girls becasue of the ug. Just explain to em that the ***** stalks you and you need to figure out how to get rid of her.

Its all good.

JJ

 

[Kev07]

i dated a fat girl for once (thank god it was only one day)... never going that road again