Not sure why I'm sharing the tragedy of last night on the board here, I guess this is simply a brief rant. Not quite sure if I'm upset at someone else or myself, or no one.
My hot neighbor threw a surprise birthday for her best friend, who is also a 9+. I've met her a few times and we got along very well. I arrived a little later than everyone else, and it was a group of 15 people; 12 drop dead gorgeous women, and 3 guys. I was like, holy crap, I am in heaven.
I had to do a double-take on one girl because she was a 1:100000 girl that you rarely see. Super short, really cute face, and great curves. I'm very short so I definitely have a thing for short girls. I introduce myself but move on to talk to other people. For simplicity, let's call her Amy. I notice no ring on her finger.
After a bunch of drinks we all head out to Rush/Division, which is the trendy night club part of Chicago. Me and the hottie chill in the corner talking, she seemed really cool. I bust on her a bit and she was digging it, definitely seemed like she was laughing at anything I threw at her.
After about a half hour or so, a bunch of the girls go up to the dance floor [Amy included] but I stay downstairs with the other girls. I get major social proof when the table next to me recognized me and it was an old friend of mine. Obviously they want to get introduced to the people I was with, and we merge tables. [Side note: it's amusing how well you get treated, both by random people, and even staff, if you're with a group of hotties, as opposed with a bunch of guys!]
I needed some liquid courage to get myself on the dance floor, but that came quick. [I think all it really takes is for me to find one of those girls, cause I usually have to be much more drunk to get on a dance floor]. I bring my buddy, dance with Amy, the birthday girl, and a couple other girls, it was a real good time. My neighbor comes over and tells us they're leaving, so we snag the table [Amy, birthday girl, me, and 2 other girls stay]. We shoot the **** some more [birthday girl definitely was flirty], but I was more interested in Amy.
We take off at around 2:00am, we had a sober driver so she taxi'd us around. I was the first stop since I lived the closest to where we were. Anyway, as I get out of the car, I take out my cell phone and go, "Hey, I'm totally going to put you on the spot with your girlfriends and let you give me your phone number." She smiled and replied, "I'm married".
Definitely not what I was expecting there! I was like, woah! I knock on neighbor's door and 5 of them were still up and try and save face, cause that's going to go badly for me. Neighbor told me how Amy mentioned earlier that she accidently forgot her wedding ring. Don't people usually bring that up, though? The other girl I was talking to there mentioned her boyfriend like 6 times in the 5 minutes I talked to her; that usually comes out quick in first conversations, especially at night clubs.
I honestly don't think she was trying to lead me on because she seemed really reserved, and even a little shy. On the dance floor, the girls were all dancing in a circle until I came and partnered up. It was just a shock. And now my chances at birthday girl are pretty much shot, cause she was in the car as witness. I probably should have asked earlier in the night, but we had a vibe going so didn't think it was going to be a problem.
Thus, another one bites the dust.
My hot neighbor threw a surprise birthday for her best friend, who is also a 9+. I've met her a few times and we got along very well. I arrived a little later than everyone else, and it was a group of 15 people; 12 drop dead gorgeous women, and 3 guys. I was like, holy crap, I am in heaven.
I had to do a double-take on one girl because she was a 1:100000 girl that you rarely see. Super short, really cute face, and great curves. I'm very short so I definitely have a thing for short girls. I introduce myself but move on to talk to other people. For simplicity, let's call her Amy. I notice no ring on her finger.
After a bunch of drinks we all head out to Rush/Division, which is the trendy night club part of Chicago. Me and the hottie chill in the corner talking, she seemed really cool. I bust on her a bit and she was digging it, definitely seemed like she was laughing at anything I threw at her.
After about a half hour or so, a bunch of the girls go up to the dance floor [Amy included] but I stay downstairs with the other girls. I get major social proof when the table next to me recognized me and it was an old friend of mine. Obviously they want to get introduced to the people I was with, and we merge tables. [Side note: it's amusing how well you get treated, both by random people, and even staff, if you're with a group of hotties, as opposed with a bunch of guys!]
I needed some liquid courage to get myself on the dance floor, but that came quick. [I think all it really takes is for me to find one of those girls, cause I usually have to be much more drunk to get on a dance floor]. I bring my buddy, dance with Amy, the birthday girl, and a couple other girls, it was a real good time. My neighbor comes over and tells us they're leaving, so we snag the table [Amy, birthday girl, me, and 2 other girls stay]. We shoot the **** some more [birthday girl definitely was flirty], but I was more interested in Amy.
We take off at around 2:00am, we had a sober driver so she taxi'd us around. I was the first stop since I lived the closest to where we were. Anyway, as I get out of the car, I take out my cell phone and go, "Hey, I'm totally going to put you on the spot with your girlfriends and let you give me your phone number." She smiled and replied, "I'm married".
Definitely not what I was expecting there! I was like, woah! I knock on neighbor's door and 5 of them were still up and try and save face, cause that's going to go badly for me. Neighbor told me how Amy mentioned earlier that she accidently forgot her wedding ring. Don't people usually bring that up, though? The other girl I was talking to there mentioned her boyfriend like 6 times in the 5 minutes I talked to her; that usually comes out quick in first conversations, especially at night clubs.
I honestly don't think she was trying to lead me on because she seemed really reserved, and even a little shy. On the dance floor, the girls were all dancing in a circle until I came and partnered up. It was just a shock. And now my chances at birthday girl are pretty much shot, cause she was in the car as witness. I probably should have asked earlier in the night, but we had a vibe going so didn't think it was going to be a problem.
Thus, another one bites the dust.