“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Never met a girl like this.
- Thread starter utformula
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Bungo Pony
Master Don Juan
Well, I just sat here and read the whole thread. Good job utfomula! Just a couple of comments:
I would have strung her along for a little bit and waited for her to ask for a date. But that's just me. If you're looking for a LTR, I suggest dating multiple girls anyway. There's a lot of crap out there. You'll find it's quite difficult to find a suitable LTR girl, but dating many girls at once gets you to filter through them faster. It's a way to pass time until you find an ideal girl for a LTR.
This is where you had this girl beginning to eat out of the palm of your hand. You let her know that her dumbass games aren't working on you, and you stood out above every other man she's dating/fvcking.
This is where she backed away from you. Suddenly, it seemed like you were implying that the two of you should do something. Then when she mentioned the terrorist lookin guy (LOL!) you let her go as if you were jealous. At least that's the impression she'll get.
I would have strung her along for a little bit and waited for her to ask for a date. But that's just me. If you're looking for a LTR, I suggest dating multiple girls anyway. There's a lot of crap out there. You'll find it's quite difficult to find a suitable LTR girl, but dating many girls at once gets you to filter through them faster. It's a way to pass time until you find an ideal girl for a LTR.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Vronski beat me too it.Originally posted by Vronski
LOL Let me guess, you paid for the date?
Forget about the fact that she's a 9. She's not. It only seems that way cause you can't have her.
Forget about the fact that she's a virgin. Did you check her hymen? No. It's a lie, a facade most probably. The more whorish a girl is, the more she plays the virgin.
If you commit your life to her, you'll probably get to see her boob if you are really lucky.
And how many how girls you approached in the last 3 months? And for how many of those girls did you fix their car? Not a lot. So dump her sorry ass.
I literally gagged and gasped out loud when I read about fixng her car, then all he got was a peck on the cheek!!!!!!!!
Run, my boy. She's not worth it!!
The Bad Ass Canadian
Bungo Pony
Master Don Juan
I think that's quite normal for girls to do that 5hit. You do them a favor, and they give you a 5hitty thankyou, or a lousy kiss. That's why it's best to save the favors for a LTR.
trevjr
Don Juan
So if I can ask a question, what are you going to do the next time you meet a girl who acts like this?
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
After spending enough time around here, and applying what you learn; You should be able to deal with a girl like this.
It's not hard to see that this girl is trouble.
For a recovering AFC, though, this isn't so easily spotted; beacause he's still blinded by his emotions.
Well let see here:
1-He spends time with her - Good
2-She seems to reciprocate feelings towards him - Good
3-This "Virgin" is dating multiple guys. - RED FLAG!!!
4- They kiss as he's fixin her car - (nothing wrong with helpin' your girlfriend...but she dates mutiple guys!!!!!!!! USER!!!!)
5- That night he gets only a peck on the cheek, after fixin her car and takin her out - USER!!! REDFLAG!!!!!
6- She dates multiple guys!!!!!!!!!!!
7-She dates multiple guys!!!!!!!!!
8-She dates multiple guys!!!!!!!!!!!!
9-She dates multiple guys!!!!!!!!
She dates multiple guys!!!!!!!!
My guess is these guys all "fix her car", so to speak.
Now, how would you deal with her?
I'd walk away.
But hey, YOU can hang around and see if you can keep her.
The Bad Ass Canadian
hmmm.... keep her around long enough to see if she has any good looking friends that arnt totally crazy...Also if anything ever does happen like this ive definitly learned my lesson about coming on so strong, the more girls i date the more and more i realize its all basically a big a game.
Bungo Pony is right...thats all she was calling more for was the oppertunity to turn me down and tell me that shes goin to the club with whatshisface. Honestly though, I dont really care...I think i was a probably a little to much for her to handle anyways compared to her normal guys she dates. I smoke pot and drink beer pretty often since im your tipical college student and all she does is pretend not to smoke cigarettes (i hate cigarettes) and drink every so often.
Ohhh yeah ive been wondering this for awhile....what the hell does AFC stand for?!
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princelydeeds
Master Don Juan
I would keep her but not do any favors for her, dont date her be her friendbut use her game to your advantage. I would try to use her for her friends. Id talk sex with her 24/7 make jokes wear her down get her to reveal her bisexual side and see what freaky sh!t she could be talked into. A trick like her would get straight used for her freaky friends.