Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That would be great if you always had ladies do that for you. It's spiritual to not have to touch it yourself and be in the right frame of mind to have women who want to do that for you.If a 20 year old guy has never ever jerked off before is that a problem?
Is that abnormal or a bad thing?
Idk I've felt attraction towards girls throughout my life bro.It's completely abnormal. Completely.
I actually remember a converasation that I had as a 14 year old, among the so-called "cool kids". We all said to each other "do you do that?". No one actually answered LMAO.
Everyone is doing it between the ages of 13 to 15, as far as I know.
That means you aren't the "norm". Which isn't actually a big deal.
Trust me though, if you had a sex drive, it would have happened. Therefore, perhaps you need to understand yourself and your sexuality.
And there is nothing wrong with that. But, you could well be asexual. Start figuring it out for yourself.
I've been told by some people they think I have Low T and should visit a Doc.Asexual people still have girlfriends, mate
I seen it on a documentary on BBC3.
Look, I'm telling you straight. Guys that need to bust a nut find a way to do so, regardless.
I grew up in a household that never talked about sex. Yet, I am quite a deviant.
You asked about the "normalness" of masturbation. And I'm being straight with you. Guys jerk off. That's all there is to it.
Someone that never jerked off until the age of 20 has something else to figure out. And that is something that no one should be giving him any sh*t for. But it is something to point out.
Do you also think it could possibly be low T?Who knows, mate?
I grew up with high-tesosterone, and was seen as different too lol. I could grow a beard by the age of 15.
You'll never fit into the standards of other gaylords. Just figure yourself out.
There is nothing necessarily "wrong" with you. Start with that. You just need to understand yourself. That took me some time, and I'm just trying to help you get there too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Get a girl to give you head than give you some puzzy. It would be great if you go through life never having masterbated even one time because you have slew of women who will take care of your c0ck for you.I've been told by some people they think I have Low T and should visit a Doc.
I'm just doing some trolling lol, I just had a thick sloot drain my pipe last night.
That's true.
Try getting your thing wet, before seeing a faggot doctor. Hell, try everything before going down that route.
I tell you now, that those guys seriously don't understand how things are. Be autonomous, as much as is possible.
So, you might lose a few plates? So what? Learning your own path is the prime. And, if it isn't, you will learn that it should be.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Do you think I have low T levels? How would I raise them??i have very high t levels. I get a shot every week. Do I masturbate? No I save it for an actual female *****. When I was younger I masturbated non stop.
Had a date last night where we rode a ferris wheel by the river. She wore a dress and no panties. I fingered her till she came twice. She is a very big moaner. After that she bought me a lobster dinner and then over to her house to f uck. After sex we relaxed in her two person whirlpool tub. Spent the night, woke up and f ucked her again.
Now I have two dates this evening and a f uck buddy that wants to meet me this week. All of you guys can do this. Strive to be your best.
How can you raise T? You definitely think I have that?Extremely low T man.
When I was younger I could have fuucking set my junk on fire and liked at least some part of it before the regret set in.
You might. The only way to know is to get tested. I would go to a clinic that specializes in low testosterone. MIne was very low. After the injections my level is very high. The cost can be prohibitive. I pay $70 per week for mine. Although when I meet my deductible it will drop down to $35 per week. Some guys do their own injections and its much cheaper. Search the forums for low t.Do you think I have low T levels? How would I raise them??
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Not a doctor mate.How can you raise T? You definitely think I have that?