"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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never really worked for me those lines with above average girls

but it did work for me with girls that were dtf and average
I've been successful with Mode One with above average girls. I don't approach women who I consider average or ugly btw. I ONLY approach women who I consider very attractive. It makes no sense to approach average or below looking women.

It's not easier to get average or below average women btw. This is a common misconception and limiting belief that many guys have.

There are a lot of very hot girls who don't get hit on as much as you might think, because their looks intimidate men and they're too scared to approach those girls.

What you'll find in the real world is that it's actually average women who get hit on the most, for this reason, and because they're being hit on more can actually be harder to get.

What hot girls usually get is more indirect ATTENTION from men, especially online....but they rarely get hit on in person with a confident direct approach. True direct guys are rare.

depends at the end of the day what you want, but for sure the game is different with average girls vs above average girls
I disagree - there's no difference in how game/attraction works with above average vs average women.

When it comes down to it, a women is either attracted to you and interested in you romantically/sexually or she isn't. So you might as well just approach the women who you're most attracted to, i.e the hot ones.

this mode 1 I can not really see it working with above average girls for example, even if you are 10/10 guy.
Spot the limiting belief there...

The higher she is towards 10/10 the likelihood of her having top notch guys wanting to bang her increases drastically
What do you mean by 'top notch guys'?

But none of that stuff matters anyway. I don't concern myself with what other guys may or may not be approaching a girl. If I'm attracted to a girl, I simply focus on approaching her confidently and directly, making my interest and intentions known then see how it pans of from there

Most of the other guys, even so called 'top notch guys' are am 99% of the time just predictable indirect guys anyway. Even if they have more money, status or career success than me, I still have an advantage over them because I'm direct. I don't need to use money or status to get women.

Your problem is your limiting beliefs re average/below average vs above average girls, and secondly your focus, i.e you concern yourself too much with other guys (these mythical 'top notch men'). I don't concern myself with any of that.

with each point added so your looks alone is not enough
Looks alone are never usually enough. Sometimes....but looks have to be backed up with a good level with confidence and game too.

dated for a while a couple of years back miss catalunia in Spain. Think she got the 3rd or 4th spot for miss spain . She was surrounded by male models and even some Barcelona footballers but they were more or less going mode 1 on her and things did not really worked out for them
I can't really comment on those guys' approaches or whether they were truly Mode 1 , but in my experience most famous/high status men are NOT Mode 1....they usually rely on their fame, status and money to get women, but verbally they're usually Mode 2 or Mode 3, i.e indirect. At the core they're still beta males but just outwardly have fame, money and perceived status.

Also, just because a guy gets rejected from Mode 1 doesn't mean Mode 1 doesn't work. It just means that particular girl wasn't interested, that's all.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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