jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Since I acquired the red/black pill and the knowledge of female behavior, I've become closed off and cynical.
Who wouldn't? After all, you've lived on the blue pill for most of your younger years, and now you feel like you've had an epiphany.
Look out there: there are stable couples, and they're the ones with obligations. This means that people without commitments are free and independent.
This means that if you don't commit, if you don't have any entanglements with a woman, you'll hardly be together.
The internet and media don't want people to bond, because they make them focus more on their own development than on developing something together, and thus they're more profitable.
If you have:
The security of having a home, therefore, financial dependence.
A large social circle, therefore, social dependence.
On her weaknesses, therefore, emotional dependence.
Children, therefore, emotional and responsibility dependence.
A job together, therefore, professional and work dependence.
A family to answer to if she misbehaves, therefore, a behavioral dependency.
A reputation or status, therefore, a social dependency.
You both have to commit.
These are multiple reasons why women spend their time with certain men out there... and don't leave them for the men they're truly attracted to. And no... I'm sorry, but it's not the physique, the emotions (I'll explain later), the big penis, the tattoos, and other things they're taught.
Of course! Women will be attracted to these men, but they're not available because they already have obligations in their life.
Furthermore, the emotions of seduction are useful for the first few months, and afterward for maintaining the relationship.
But it's not the emotions that make you win in the long run... It's the "obligations" that are created within the couple.
Yes, of course, she could become emotionally attached to someone else and detach herself from you.
It's really too easy for women today to do that... Women are too weak in this regard.
That said, you are the man who should never change his nature just to save a relationship.
Behave like a man, continue to be kind, available, sociable, cheerful, and loved by everyone. Even with her.
You shouldn't resent, get angry, or vent about what would happen to you if she behave like that.
You should simply take on those obligations, understand that you have to do something, make it clear that you won't just sit there wasting time. Before she changes you, or your soul loses its vitality, walk away.
If she doesn't return to your emotional frame, walk away.
But, beforehand, give her time to come back, and if she hasn't cheated, you can start over.
But if she doesn't come back, move on.
That said, you shouldn't stick to self-improvement your entire life. That helps, but at some point, after analyzing, you should choose!
You should lean on and always believe that you can rely on someone.
You should trust the people around you, you should trust a woman.
If you trust someone, and that someone betrays your trust, then you can choose to cut them off.
But if you never trust anyone, life will be truly gray.
This post was necessary because most men here believe that once you become a seducer, you'll have a wonderful life. But the problem is, they want to teach us that you should be independent and alone your whole life, when you should never trust anyone, or "hand over" the keys to your life to anyone out there.
It's just not the case..
Yes, being in a family means many obligations and also things you don't like to do.
But it's like we as men are actually going back to being teens, instead of taking responsabilities, just because we could be cheated on, or that we don't trust the female nature.
Who wouldn't? After all, you've lived on the blue pill for most of your younger years, and now you feel like you've had an epiphany.
Look out there: there are stable couples, and they're the ones with obligations. This means that people without commitments are free and independent.
This means that if you don't commit, if you don't have any entanglements with a woman, you'll hardly be together.
The internet and media don't want people to bond, because they make them focus more on their own development than on developing something together, and thus they're more profitable.
If you have:
The security of having a home, therefore, financial dependence.
A large social circle, therefore, social dependence.
On her weaknesses, therefore, emotional dependence.
Children, therefore, emotional and responsibility dependence.
A job together, therefore, professional and work dependence.
A family to answer to if she misbehaves, therefore, a behavioral dependency.
A reputation or status, therefore, a social dependency.
You both have to commit.
These are multiple reasons why women spend their time with certain men out there... and don't leave them for the men they're truly attracted to. And no... I'm sorry, but it's not the physique, the emotions (I'll explain later), the big penis, the tattoos, and other things they're taught.
Of course! Women will be attracted to these men, but they're not available because they already have obligations in their life.
Furthermore, the emotions of seduction are useful for the first few months, and afterward for maintaining the relationship.
But it's not the emotions that make you win in the long run... It's the "obligations" that are created within the couple.
Yes, of course, she could become emotionally attached to someone else and detach herself from you.
It's really too easy for women today to do that... Women are too weak in this regard.
That said, you are the man who should never change his nature just to save a relationship.
Behave like a man, continue to be kind, available, sociable, cheerful, and loved by everyone. Even with her.
You shouldn't resent, get angry, or vent about what would happen to you if she behave like that.
You should simply take on those obligations, understand that you have to do something, make it clear that you won't just sit there wasting time. Before she changes you, or your soul loses its vitality, walk away.
If she doesn't return to your emotional frame, walk away.
But, beforehand, give her time to come back, and if she hasn't cheated, you can start over.
But if she doesn't come back, move on.
That said, you shouldn't stick to self-improvement your entire life. That helps, but at some point, after analyzing, you should choose!
You should lean on and always believe that you can rely on someone.
You should trust the people around you, you should trust a woman.
If you trust someone, and that someone betrays your trust, then you can choose to cut them off.
But if you never trust anyone, life will be truly gray.
This post was necessary because most men here believe that once you become a seducer, you'll have a wonderful life. But the problem is, they want to teach us that you should be independent and alone your whole life, when you should never trust anyone, or "hand over" the keys to your life to anyone out there.
It's just not the case..
Yes, being in a family means many obligations and also things you don't like to do.
But it's like we as men are actually going back to being teens, instead of taking responsabilities, just because we could be cheated on, or that we don't trust the female nature.
