"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Never Lose Sight...

VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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Chill out guys!!! This world is way to flakey to take anything in it seriously. Stop worrying about whether or not girl x likes you or not. Or whether you should fvck girl y. It doesn’t matter! Do what feels right and show the world how great of a guy you are, if a certain ***** is too dumb to see that, then screw her, there are plenty more out there.

Life is too great to be spent worrying and *****ing about how bad our lives are. Suck it up and make the best of it. See things for what they are and act accordingly. Stare a person in the eyes tomorrow, just to see how insecure they are. Laugh and ask yourself why anyone wouldn’t have the confidence to look back. You’re a DJ!!!! You’re surrounded by complete bull****; shake it all off and follow your life the way you want to. To quote Anti-Dump you need to chase “Love the way YOU want it”. Do your best to see who the winners and the losers are. Do your best to separate yourself from the losers because all they will do is hold you back. Let it all go; it’s all a bunch of lies anyways. Stress, girls, life; it’s all one big joke! Never let it the best of you.

I challenge each of us to do something tomorrow that we are scared of. Lets go get 5 numbers, lets all go get girlfriends, lets all go get what we want… Do something you honestly believe you cannot do. Step it up, right here and right now. Stand up and accept the fact that life is tough and take responsibility for your own happiness. It’s in your hands, prove to everyone how worthy you are. Make a new friend tomorrow, meet someone new. Understand that the people who annoy you are most likely more lost and confused that anyone you know, because DJs only like winners.

Try to come one step closer to finding what you truly love doing (other than women :D ). Life isn’t so bad, it’s tough, but you’ll make it through. Hold on to all your insecurities, all your doubts, and all your convictions. Love life and do your best to love everyone around you. Whatever it is you’re looking for, I wish you the best of luck in finding it. Always remember to keep girls second and your life first.

Never lose sight…
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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buckwheat18

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Awesome post!, This is very motivational and at the same time so true. I'm realizeing know i just take some situations way to seriously, I just need to step back and look at things and laugh at them. My challenge tommorrow is to try a cold approach. What i got out of this is basically fear is what you make it, remmember fear is only a four letter word. To quote from star wars "May the force be with you"
 
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LikRetsam

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I like... very motivating.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jerky Boi

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*Tear* Very motivational and uplifting post :] These are the kinda things I like to see in the forums. You did make an excellent point about saying not to take simple things soo seriously. Life is short guys, and we all really don't have time to sit and mope about a girl all day. Get out and do what you love :] Not saying that you should completely stop thinking about girls, but just don't let them control you life. Excellent post
 
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