"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NEVER listen to what a girl says (lay report)

getready

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SHORT VERSION: LTR (1.5 years) tells me not to spank her, then tells me Im acting weird. I continue like nothing happened, then later **** her, and in the midst of the ****ing, she asks me to spank her. I do it as hard as I can, then choke her, and I have never seen her happier. Rediculous.

Well not sure if this qualifies as a lay report because it was with my LTR, but interesting nonetheless. It's really shocking that even after 1.5 years girl is still trying to **** test me.

Anyway so I like to spank my girl sometimes during sex, and today she was complaining how she doesn't really like it and I do it too hard. She says its ok as long as I do it soft and not all the time. [**** test] Whatever, I blow it off, spank her a little playfully. A couple of hours later, I told her to meet me and that we were going to go for a ride, which is normal code for us that were gonna bang. It's raining outside so she asks for my jacket, and I'm like "its your fault for not wearing a rain jacket!" in a joking way. But she keeps asking me and saying that Im so mean, so I give it to her and tell her she can repay me in sexual favors. She says ok ill give them to you another day, and that she doesn't want to suck my **** today during sex (this is usually what I want as a sexual favor, it's a big deal for her because of some past ****) which I was kinda pissed about. Nonetheless, I say that she can win this one (which is not normal for me, I almost never give in to her). [**** test]

Then, were getting along good as were walking to my car and I start making fun of her or something and goofing around like I always do. She says that I am being "so weird", which she does sometimes, and knows that it makes me uncomfortable. [**** test] So in my head I'm thinking she must not want to have sex today, she's turned off (she usually has a really high sex drive), this feels forced. In the past this feeling has deterred me from hooking up with girls, because the bad vibes make me self-concious. But today I was like **** it I'm horny today Im going to have sex. I did not change how I was acting and just went on like she didn't say anything.

We go for a drive, park and start hooking up. I can tell that she's pretty into it, like her normal high sex drive self. So I get some confidence and ratch it up a bit. Being forceful and aggressive when I kiss her and feel her up. Then I start telling her what to do "take you shirt off" "take my pants off". I didn't even pull off a good voice, but I could tell that it was making her super turned on. I prolong the foreplay longer than usual and get even more aggresive. Then when we finally start having sex, I am hitting it HARD, and tossing her around, making her do what I want. She's going crazy which just gives me more confidence. Then she whisper "spank me". I give a little mental chuckle at the irony then start spanking the **** out of her. Just like as hard as I could. She starts SCREAMING. Seriously the loudest I have ever heard. She has already came a couple of times and I start CHOKING her, which I have only done to her once before. She's just loving every minute of it. After she's been screaming for like 10 mintues straight and cvm multiple times, I get on top which usually means I'm about to finish. She says "do whatever you want with me". I continue for like 30 seconds then pull out and bust on her tits.

The moral of the story is NEVER listen to what a girl says and secondly, a girl will **** test you to the end of time. Pass the **** test and your unstoppable. I think I might have even partially failed her test when she wanted my jacket, but I just continued in the direction of sex without being affected, and she went nuts. I mean I just spanked and chocked the **** out of my LTR after she told me not to, and she loved every minute of it. Rediculous. If you get bad vibes or a girl says "your acting weird", carry on my friend, carry on.

Oh and any suggestions on the raincoat thing? I mean, I personally fall victim to the newbie sosuave mindset that your never supposed to do favors for a girl and that bull****. I know it's not right but I have a hard time feeling like I'm maintaining frame if I give her what she asks for. I did give up my jacket to her so she didn't get wet and I had to walk in a t shirt. AFC move in a LTR? Or a gentlemanly thing to do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IamJosan

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I feel like if a girl is mad at you, then you must be doing something right.
 

jcap

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another technique i heard is to bring a pair of scissors and cut her skin,
like slice off a little part of her skin while you **** her
when she's coming cut her hair, don't cut her face because then she might call the cops on you.
 

PDubb75

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jcap said:
another technique i heard is to bring a pair of scissors and cut her skin,
like slice off a little part of her skin while you **** her
when she's coming cut her hair, don't cut her face because then she might call the cops on you.
WTF???

Anyway, OP, nice story. About the raincoat, I don't think it was a bad move. Especially since it's an LTR. If shes uncomfortable because shes getting rained on, I wouldn't call that a sh!t test. Not giving her the coat might have resulted in her being pissed and you not getting anything.

If it wasn't an LTR, might not be the same answer.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fred_Scuttle

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I listen to what they say. Why shouldn't you. If you ignore them they will get mad.
 
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