I'm in my mid twenties and I've never been on a date. I battled with social anxiety and eventually overcame it. Right now I work fulltime and there are no women in my life. My confidence is running on one cylinder and I'm not sure how to kick start it given my dismal dating record.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Never had a love life...
- Thread starter Slam_Jam
- Start date