"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Never had a date 26 y.o.

Victor C

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Okey, guys. Let me give you update.
Tomorrow I'm dating her.
Not sure about possible results, but I'll be happy in any case.
I have no idea what I'm expecting from that girl tomorrow. Have no idea when and why to kiss. And have no intent to have sex with her any time before marriage, which is quite unlikely.
She was just nice looking, I had a chance and didn't miss it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheGambino

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This is retard advice.

First off the average stripper does not make even close $600 a night.
Only the hottest of the hot can make 600 in a night and furthermore Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays are slow at strip clubs..
They only make good money Thursday - Saturday and Sunday during football season.

Second of all lf you are going to patronize a sex worker and spend $600 fuck going on a date or throwing it at some washed up stripper.
For $600 you can have a three some with two sexy ass hookers..

But don't do that either.
Dating is simple.
Go on an action date..
Bowling, skating, amusement park ..


Touch on her but not too much.
Grab her hand crossing the street.
Guide her by her back as you lead her through a crowd..then as the date goes on get more touchy.
Hug her and squeeze her booty,
Touch on her thighs as your sitting

Just keep escalating till you get sexual.
Always attempt sex. I don't care how "good girl" you think she is. If its too soon she will forgive you but their is no forgiveness for being a p*ssy ..

If you need more detailed advice pm me
Thisssssss
 

Bokanovsky

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Go to a few strip clubs, find a girl you really like, and tell her you will pay her whatever she makes in an average night (it's around $600) to go out to dinner with you. Tell her dress up, pay her in advance when you meet her, and spend a few hours together. She will show you a good time, trust me, it's a lot easier than her normal night. Go on a few dates with her (she will lower the price if she likes you) or find some other girls. This will give you some experience at least. They will usually kiss you goodnight. If not, ask her to help you adjust your image. This way, you take your problem with women and turn it into a problem with money: the amount of money indicates how far off you are. You will naturally adjust yourself based on the feedback she gives you.
Whatever you do, don't take advice from bigneil. His universal solution to everything is "you must find a stripper and pay her $xxx". Why the hell would you do this when you can just go on tinder, bumble or whatever it is people use for online dating these days and arrange dates with women free of charge? They don't have to know you are virgin either. Just go on dates and practice. Setting up dates is so easy...if the girl is attracted to you (and she won't swipe right if she's not), just exchange a few text and then invite her for a drink. There's a 90% that she will say yes.

Also, do not tell your co-workers what you have told us under any circumstances. I can promise you that it will not stay secret and will backfire against you in a major way.
 

Mike32ct

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Just two final “add-ons” to Bokanovsky’s points....

1. Why would a stripper even be interested in helping you up your “game” or “attractiveness?” She wouldn’t. It would be a total waste of your money. I’ll let you in on a secret. Most strippers (and prosties) hate their clients.

2. The other reason not to tell coworkers is that, when it comes to juicy gossip, workplace people have a memory that rivals any elephant. If you are still working there ten years later, they will still be recycling the same gossip about you. I literally keep hearing the SAME stories about what other coworkers did or said in 2003-2004. They NEVER let stuff go lol.

Anyway, that was just for informational purposes.

I see that you have a REAL date planned, which is great. Good luck man.
 
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