"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So the one girl I have the oneitis for I find out she has a bf...... She was interested in me intially but I never asked her for her # and then I ignored her for a while and she was desperate to talk to me and I didn't and then she stopped wanting to talk to me so I started to talk to her again because I felt she deserved it and now since ive talked to her she's kinda happy about me but I find out she has a bf.... so my question is should I ask her for her # anyway just as kinda like friends to hang out?, to keep in touch? Or just in case something happens in the future w/ her bf and they break up? Or is she a lost cause? :(
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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^yea that is what I thought, but I had read somewhere that if you discover that the target has a bf you should not pursue her. But I know this girl and she is interested in me and alsmost intimidated by me.....the only question now is how do I take her away? Anyone got any info?
 

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Just treat it as if she has no bf, and if she brings him up in a conversation, either ignore it or use a bf destroyer.
This is one I got on another seduction board and is pure genious, credit goes to Romeo7 from that board.
HB: I have a boyfriend

PUA: I'm glad that you're straight, If you were a lesbian I would prolly be hitting on you

HB: (CRACKS UP)

PUA: Let me ask you something, Look at me, and tell me, do you think I would make a good boyfriend?

HB: Yes/I don't know/ Maybe

PUA: You see, I bet you your boyfriend is like the greatest boyfriend in the world, he probably calls you 5 times a day to make sure you're ok, to see where you are and with who, buys you roses and chocolates.

HB: Not really...

PUA: Stop hiding it... You guys probably make a great couple, and with no doubt will be married in a couple of months and have handsome kids

HB: I'm not even thinking of marriage

PUA: Yes, you are,

**** ALL OF THAT WAS TO DEVALUATE HER BOYFRIEND'S IMAGE****

**** BUT IT KEEPS GOING *******

PUA: Anyway, getting back to my question,I think i would make a terrible boyfriend

HB: Why you say that?

PUA: I wouldn't call my girlfriend five times a day, I would call her ten (isn't that sweet) *** she laughs**** ok, eleven.... Then I would make fun of her friends and have her cook for me, and finally I would break up with her on Valentine's day

**** ALL PLAYFUL TONE BUDDY *****

HB: HAHAHAH, you're so mean

PUA: Yes, I am

***** HERE COMES THE TRANSITION TO SEDUCTION *****

PUA: So, let's go to eat, you can bring your boyfriend if you want i would love to meet him

HB: really?

PUA: no

HB: hahaha

PUA: we are going to eat, as friends, but of course you're paying

***** THIS IS SOLID, THE "AS FRIENDS" DRIVES GIRLS MAAAAAD ABOUT YOU ******
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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does it matter if I asked her if she has a bf? I kinda asked her indirectly by asking where he was? And she answered. So then I said so you do have a bf? Do I just keep acting like she doesnt have one?
 

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I take no credit for that bf destroyer. Like I said, credit goes to Romeo7 on another forum. However, I have field tested this and it works wonders.
 

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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