"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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never get screwed over again!

danthemann

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so my story is this: 21 years old, was going out with a bpd for 3 months before i realized she was bpd. simply put she would break up with me just so she could get with other dudes. but she wouldnt put out, not for me or any of these guys but yet had only screwed 4 guys... its like she was always just satisfied knowing she could get it...

anyways i wanted to see for myself how this was happening so i keylogged my computer and wow..... i caught her red handed where shed hit up a buncha guys and shed coordinate a break up with me to hook up with whichever one, usually an ex. she had been doing it the whole time we were going out and usually shed start a fight to break it up, harass me, and then wanted me back...

The best part is i know im not crazy cuz i had the gut feeling and called her out on it from the start and now i can clearly SEE i wasnt the skitzo lunatic. youd be amazed at some of the stuff i found and how at most of the times i was getting screwed over, i remember feeling that way at that time. a guess a great first hand lesson on why i should always stick to my gut.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jariel

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Sorry to hear that man. What a lousy b1tch.

However, I totally agree on the gut thing. I usually pick up on a vibe when a girl isn't being honest with me or if she's losing interest, and it's usually spot on.
 

shizz702

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Welcome to Womaniverse!

Always go with the gut, it seldom lies.
 

bullethead

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dude you have keylogged her cpu. Don't break up with her, get revenge. Expose her or do something clever.
 

backbreaker

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she's not crazy, she just doens't like you enough to stay committed to you. every girl that fvcks other men isn't crazy. half of you guys don't know what a true BPD is.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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