Never Get Rejected.

[the305]

I will make this short.

Rejection is: you as a man offering, a women something, then giving her the choice to accept or deny. notice how I said "choice"

Attraction IS NOT a choice, as a person we cannot point to someone at random, and instantly BE attracted to them, it doesnt work like that.

So as guys this is what we can do to take advantage of this human behavior.

Start developing characteristics and qualities that ARE attractive, it will create an environment where, you're not chasing girls anymore, girls are chasing you, thus eliminating the "rejection", because her choice is already made when shes chasing you.

Now theres TONS of ways to go about portraying these qualities that girls instantly pick up on, ONE(this fits MY LIFE not yours necessarily) that I frequaently take part in, that is part of my life style now is, having women around me. I have tons of girl friends, girls that are awsome, fun, hot - and we are just friends, NOT in a friendzone, JUST friends.

When we are out in a venue of some sort, theres two things women will notice:

1. other womens outfits
2. guys surrounded by girls

I could approach any girls in the venue and they will be 100% more receptive to me, after they saw me with a group of girls, .vs me approaching them with my "wing" - The vibe of guys going around meeting women is a turn off, EVEN if they girls are out to meet men, the vibe they get, makes them feel like just another piece of ass they are trying to bang.

Try approaching them after they see you with a group of girls and see how they react.

You don't have to be attractive person to display characteristics that are attractive.

Hint: I will tell you right off the bat: having a career, being goal oriented, being faithful, going somewhere in life, etc will NOT create a connection or build attraction with a girl.

Making her laugh, have a good time, you being confident and her feeling that confidence, you being passionate about life, being positive in situations where she expects different, putting yourself in a higher priority then her so your not always available to her every request, etc.. THESE are the qualities that women fall for and create attraction.

Don't be one of those guys sititng in your room, comparing your resume to the guy that took the girl, then banging your head against the wall calling her stupid for being with a loser.

Develope those attractive characteristics!!

 

[The Pedantical]

I don't get it. What's wrong with offering her the possibility of going with your or not? Do men really need to go through the trouble of doing theatrics just to make a particular girl feel attracted?

 

[kingsam]

some times you have to cold approach, and wont have the social proof of your haream round you
sheilding your self from rejection will create problems when your on your own, with no social proof..etc

for a professional this is pretty poinless advice, id expect more

stop advertising your site , thats what your doing, advertising

 

[the305]

"Now theres TONS of ways to go about portraying these qualities that girls instantly pick up on, ONE(this fits MY LIFE not yours necessarily) is go out with girls... etc"

I never stated that someone shouldn't approach alone, so im confused... did you read the correct post?

How ever you guys want to go about portraying qualities that girls find interesting, so it creates a dynamic where they are chasing you, you not chasing them its completely up to you!

i gave ONE example, that tons of guys do and have great results with, including myself - so according to you stating what obviously works, means it doesn't work.. hmm

 

[EA Gold]

This is good advice. For example if you were at the club and saw a women with couple of guys, I'm sure most of you would say that she would have value.

And if that same women just walked up to you and started talking to you, you would feel great and be more receptive in what she has to say.

Looking at that point of view, the key is eye contact with a girl you like. If your with a bunch of your friend girls and you see a girl giving u you prolonged eye contact. Your next step would be to walk over to her, project confidence using your voice tonality and body language. Once you pass all her resistance your on your way to a win.

 

[confident afc]

This is good advice. For example if you were at the club and saw a women with couple of guys, I'm sure most of you would say that she would have value.

And if that same women just walked up to you and started talking to you, you would feel great and be more receptive in what she has to say.

Looking at that point of view, the key is eye contact with a girl you like. If your with a bunch of your friend girls and you see a girl giving u you prolonged eye contact. Your next step would be to walk over to her, project confidence using your voice tonality and body language. Once you pass all her resistance your on your way to a win.

No, I would think she was a wh0re, and that they were going to run a train on her when they left.

 

[Lexington]

I agree with most of what you say except for the title. By all means, try your best to not get rejected, but rejection is an inevitability. It's best to make peace with that fact and to just soldier on. Just don't take rejection personally. You should strive to be able to bounce it off your chest like it was nothing.

 

[Captain]

If you never get rejected you either aren't pushing hard enough or aren't approaching enough women.

 

[the305]

This wasn't a post on how to literally never get rejected, thats impossible. This was a post explaining that attraction IS NOT a choice - people are attracted to characteristics/qualities, if you developer those qualities - you will be an attractive person and girls will start putting forth some effort to get to you know or be more receptive. thus eliminating "rejection".

This isnt a "method" to never get rejected, its an eye opener to what attracts women to a point where, she wont reject you.