I will make this short.
Rejection is: you as a man offering, a women something, then giving her the choice to accept or deny. notice how I said "choice"
Attraction IS NOT a choice, as a person we cannot point to someone at random, and instantly BE attracted to them, it doesnt work like that.
So as guys this is what we can do to take advantage of this human behavior.
Start developing characteristics and qualities that ARE attractive, it will create an environment where, you're not chasing girls anymore, girls are chasing you, thus eliminating the "rejection", because her choice is already made when shes chasing you.
Now theres TONS of ways to go about portraying these qualities that girls instantly pick up on, ONE(this fits MY LIFE not yours necessarily) that I frequaently take part in, that is part of my life style now is, having women around me. I have tons of girl friends, girls that are awsome, fun, hot - and we are just friends, NOT in a friendzone, JUST friends.
When we are out in a venue of some sort, theres two things women will notice:
1. other womens outfits
2. guys surrounded by girls
I could approach any girls in the venue and they will be 100% more receptive to me, after they saw me with a group of girls, .vs me approaching them with my "wing" - The vibe of guys going around meeting women is a turn off, EVEN if they girls are out to meet men, the vibe they get, makes them feel like just another piece of ass they are trying to bang.
Try approaching them after they see you with a group of girls and see how they react.
You don't have to be attractive person to display characteristics that are attractive.
Hint: I will tell you right off the bat: having a career, being goal oriented, being faithful, going somewhere in life, etc will NOT create a connection or build attraction with a girl.
Making her laugh, have a good time, you being confident and her feeling that confidence, you being passionate about life, being positive in situations where she expects different, putting yourself in a higher priority then her so your not always available to her every request, etc.. THESE are the qualities that women fall for and create attraction.
Don't be one of those guys sititng in your room, comparing your resume to the guy that took the girl, then banging your head against the wall calling her stupid for being with a loser.
Develope those attractive characteristics!!
Rejection is: you as a man offering, a women something, then giving her the choice to accept or deny. notice how I said "choice"
Attraction IS NOT a choice, as a person we cannot point to someone at random, and instantly BE attracted to them, it doesnt work like that.
So as guys this is what we can do to take advantage of this human behavior.
Start developing characteristics and qualities that ARE attractive, it will create an environment where, you're not chasing girls anymore, girls are chasing you, thus eliminating the "rejection", because her choice is already made when shes chasing you.
Now theres TONS of ways to go about portraying these qualities that girls instantly pick up on, ONE(this fits MY LIFE not yours necessarily) that I frequaently take part in, that is part of my life style now is, having women around me. I have tons of girl friends, girls that are awsome, fun, hot - and we are just friends, NOT in a friendzone, JUST friends.
When we are out in a venue of some sort, theres two things women will notice:
1. other womens outfits
2. guys surrounded by girls
I could approach any girls in the venue and they will be 100% more receptive to me, after they saw me with a group of girls, .vs me approaching them with my "wing" - The vibe of guys going around meeting women is a turn off, EVEN if they girls are out to meet men, the vibe they get, makes them feel like just another piece of ass they are trying to bang.
Try approaching them after they see you with a group of girls and see how they react.
You don't have to be attractive person to display characteristics that are attractive.
Hint: I will tell you right off the bat: having a career, being goal oriented, being faithful, going somewhere in life, etc will NOT create a connection or build attraction with a girl.
Making her laugh, have a good time, you being confident and her feeling that confidence, you being passionate about life, being positive in situations where she expects different, putting yourself in a higher priority then her so your not always available to her every request, etc.. THESE are the qualities that women fall for and create attraction.
Don't be one of those guys sititng in your room, comparing your resume to the guy that took the girl, then banging your head against the wall calling her stupid for being with a loser.
Develope those attractive characteristics!!