"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Imagine a future with a girl , its something ive done in my younger years that always made it rough if something fell through . The second you start viewing a girl your interested in as a potential FB,GF, fiance , or wife thats when you open your self up to being hurt , then if you let them know your considering this , its a even bigger death sentence.

When i was younger I would always push for the relationship, so i could feel like they were mine , now i know they never truly will be , its always a battle , so why rush , wait until shes begging you to be her man , let her want it more than you. This is how i live now.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cablecow15 said:
Imagine a future with a girl , its something ive done in my younger years that always made it rough if something fell through . The second you start viewing a girl your interested in as a potential FB,GF, fiance , or wife thats when you open your self up to being hurt , then if you let them know your considering this , its a even bigger death sentence.

When i was younger I would always push for the relationship, so i could feel like they were mine , now i know they never truly will be , its always a battle , so why rush , wait until shes begging you to be her man , let her want it more than you. This is how i live now.
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Youre not wrong here, I think this thought pattern stems, mainly, fron oneitis though am i right?:yes:
 
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I'm definitely guilty of this. I try to tell myself that it won't mess my game up, but I guess it still has its psychological effects on you.

At the same time, I don't want to interact with women with zero desire. My few successes have come from showing some emotion to them.
 
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Youre not wrong here, I think this thought pattern stems, mainly, fron oneitis though am i right?:yes:
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Ehh , it can , but for me the main reason was trying to find a reason why this girl is different , then once I start to notice something i view as valuable ill start rationalizing how they would be in a relationship and blah blah blah , one thing leads to another I start wondering if a girl is wife material , before i even make her my gf , I over analyze , and it can often cause oneitis
 
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It will leak out accidentally.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It will leak out accidentally.
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lol , that line can be used to describe plenty of problems
 
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