"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Imagine a future with a girl , its something ive done in my younger years that always made it rough if something fell through . The second you start viewing a girl your interested in as a potential FB,GF, fiance , or wife thats when you open your self up to being hurt , then if you let them know your considering this , its a even bigger death sentence.

When i was younger I would always push for the relationship, so i could feel like they were mine , now i know they never truly will be , its always a battle , so why rush , wait until shes begging you to be her man , let her want it more than you. This is how i live now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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cablecow15 said:
Imagine a future with a girl , its something ive done in my younger years that always made it rough if something fell through . The second you start viewing a girl your interested in as a potential FB,GF, fiance , or wife thats when you open your self up to being hurt , then if you let them know your considering this , its a even bigger death sentence.

When i was younger I would always push for the relationship, so i could feel like they were mine , now i know they never truly will be , its always a battle , so why rush , wait until shes begging you to be her man , let her want it more than you. This is how i live now.
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Youre not wrong here, I think this thought pattern stems, mainly, fron oneitis though am i right?:yes:
 
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I'm definitely guilty of this. I try to tell myself that it won't mess my game up, but I guess it still has its psychological effects on you.

At the same time, I don't want to interact with women with zero desire. My few successes have come from showing some emotion to them.
 
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Youre not wrong here, I think this thought pattern stems, mainly, fron oneitis though am i right?:yes:
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Ehh , it can , but for me the main reason was trying to find a reason why this girl is different , then once I start to notice something i view as valuable ill start rationalizing how they would be in a relationship and blah blah blah , one thing leads to another I start wondering if a girl is wife material , before i even make her my gf , I over analyze , and it can often cause oneitis
 
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It will leak out accidentally.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It will leak out accidentally.
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lol , that line can be used to describe plenty of problems
 
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