"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Never Date Anyone At Work!!!

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I know I know you guys said don't date woman at your work and what did I do I didn't listen. I flirted with this girl at my work and went out with her only once and there was no sex actually I didn't even kiss her. I wasn't really feeling her anymore so I didn't ask her out again. Actually didn't really even talk to her at work that much. Now she askes me out like every time she sees me. I always say I'm busy though. She also gets very very angry if she sees me talking to a girl. She will come up to me and say I saw you flirting with that girl blah blah blah even when I'm not. Shes crazy jealous. Shes acting like shes my girlfriend now. The funny thing too is that she has a boyfriend that lives a couple hours away. She won't stop bugging me. Now she even found out where I live from someone else and came over. I want to get rid of her. She bugs me. How do I do this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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F*ck her a few times. (If she's gonna cause trouble for you, you might as well get some.)

Do it on your terms. Call her up at the last minute and tell her to come over. Don't let her stay over. Never answer her calls. Ignore her while at work.

Eventually, she'll "hate" you, and she'll b*tch about you to everyone at work. And maybe some other chicks at work may get interested in you over all the drama.

Don't worry about any of this at all.

You can always get another job.

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F*ck her a few times. (If she's gonna cause trouble for you, you might as well get some.)

Do it on your terms. Call her up at the last minute and tell her to come over. Don't let her stay over. Never answer her calls. Ignore her while at work.

Eventually, she'll "hate" you, and she'll b*tch about you to everyone at work. And maybe some other chicks at work may get interested.

Don't worry about any of this at all.

You can always get another job.

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The way you put it seems like he is fvcked either way.....

What if you tried talking to her by saying you only see her as a friend and nothing more?
 

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HE'S not f*cked. She's CHASING him. He ought to take advantage of the situation.

He really doesn't want a "real deal" with her, so why not nail her a few times, and move on?


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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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HE'S not f*cked. She's CHASING him. He ought to take advantage of the situation.

He really doesn't want a "real deal" with her, so why not nail her a few times, and move on?


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Having sex with a co-worker and then, forgeting about her? To me seems like a bad idea. Who knows what kind of drama it could bring in to the work area. Maybe, it wont be as bad as I may seem it to be. Your call on this one.....
 

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Well shes been so annoying to me lately that I wouldn't want to **** her because I'm not even slightly attracted to her anymore. Not only that but if she became this way just by one date I don't know what would happen if I slept with her. Oh and trust me I've been trying to get her to hate me. I'm a jerk to her. I ignore her text and calls, ignore her at work, tell her to stop following me and to even shut up and leave me alone and it just makes her like me more!!! Hell she even asked me where I lived and I told her I'm not telling her because I don't want a stalker and she goes and gets my address from another co worker. I was going to quit in a month anyways but still.
 

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I was going to quit in a month anyways
Well... I suggest you bang this broad. I mean, since you're only going to be there for a few more weeks tops, it can't cause any terribly bad problems. Also, once she stops seeing you on a daily basis, im sure her "stalker-status" will fade. So, hit it and quit it my friend. Good luck ;]

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Dude, you're planning to QUIT anyway?

So WHAT if she's annoying? NAIL her.


USE HER UP.


SHAKE HER NAKED.


SPANK HER.




WHAT is your problem? Just f*ck her.

Hard.

Enjoy it. She's begging for it.


What's WRONG with you? You don't have to LIKE her; you don't have to "DATE" her. Just F*CK her.

Jesus Christ.




(Unless she's UGLY, or something, man.)

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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that's my rule too..there are soo many good looking girls at my work but I don't even bother.I hate seeing the same people every single day if we are involved..then you have to deal with do you say hi or not ,eye contact hi,talk to them etc.
I'd rather just skip it all together..unless they are in a different dept and we BARELY see one another then it may be okay..
 

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(Unless she's UGLY, or something, man.)
She can't be ugly, he wanted to date her but then changed his mind because she wasn't that pretty either.

He could still pull a BJ out of the deal if he doesn't want to bang her and just cvm all over her face so she won't want to see him again.
 

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Sleep with her, and be the worst lover ever. Act like you don't even know where her c!it is :up: Then watch her run and never bother you again
 
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