"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Never confess your feelings through texts.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don Juan
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because it is incredibly true and increasingly important in today's game. Don't blow it via text. Be subtle if anything, and maintain an aura. Don't drop your cards on a seemingly innocent dumb text...it can and will destroy your position and frame
Thats my thought on blurting out your feelings, especially if your just seeing a bird:


The only thing you should say when a girl tells you her feelings.


Keep it short and sweet enough as well as the mystique to have her wheel spinning to keep her after you.

To quote the Genius GZA: Make it brief Son, half short and twice strong
Had to quote this for the fact that Harrison Ford was a great example on how to treat women in his main trilogies Star Wars and Indiana Jones. He'd tease, he'd starve them of attention and he'd treat them like spoiled brats at times. He had it down.
 
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