NEVER change for anyone!

[TransferX]

Been a while since I've been here and have been reading some of the other posts. Anyhow heres a little wise advice,

ALWAYS remember this statement:

NEVER CHANGE YOURSELF FOR ANYONE.

Your likes are your likes, you are how you are, your personality is your personality, etc.....and this is NATURAL. Trying to change yourself into something that you are not is unnatural and will only bite you in the ass in the long run.

FORGET ALL THE GIMMICKS. Just be yourself, and if someone doesn't like it move on. Just meet enough people and eventually you will find someone who is on the same wavelength as yourself and you will be fine.

Anything less and you are only setting yourself up for major disappointment and headaches.

Improvements in appearance and dialog will certainly help, but you will NEVER change your personality.

 

[DarkenedEvil]

good tip!

I already came to that conclusion way back when,but good to remember.

In one of my past relationships the chick
tried to change me in a few different ways-
1.She tryed to drag me to bible study-
=Big mistake!I'm of NO religion E-V-E-R!
2.She told me I should ditch my friends!
=Not gonna happin!

I'm proud to say I ditched her!And I'm Glad.

Don't change for them!Be yourself!

 

[AlfredB18]

Originally posted by DarkenedEvil:
good tip!

1.She tryed to drag me to bible study-
=Big mistake!I'm of NO religion E-V-E-R!
B]

I can second the notion for #1. I dated a Russian chick who is a Mormon and she desperately wanted me to go to church with her. Okay, one, I hate jello salad and I'm non-denom, so that was the beginning of the end for her.

 

[Patroclus82]

I totally killed any chance I may have had with a girl by telling her that I wasn't of the religious persuasion.....Although, I had already made her the laughing stock of the class.. Sometimes, I go waaaaaaay overboard with the 'audience pleasing' neg-hitting.

Laters

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When you're as great as I am, it's hard to be humble.
--Muhammad Ali

 

[Taz]

Patroclus, what exactly did you do?

If I was getting good puzzy every night, and the girl wanted me to shave my mustache, I'd probably do it. But when it comes to changing your religion/belief, that should be the MOST important thing to you. Darkened Evil, you're of No religion EVER? That's awesome, I'm curious to know why. Want to talk about it in Anything Else?

 

[DarkenedEvil]

Originally posted by Taz:
Darkened Evil, you're of No religion EVER? That's awesome, I'm curious to know why. Want to talk about it in Anything Else?

why? becouse I was raised without it,and I am
aware of religions MANY flaws...
Religion is a VERY touchy subject with people
so I'm not gona express my feelings towards
it here...
Fact: Last time we mixed politics with religion,people got burned at the stake...

So when I meet a girl religion is a challenge,I seek the "non religious"
and any gal of mine that tries to convert
me will be Ditched...or Converted to mine
hehehe
I will not change for anyone but ME <>
Darkened~



[This message has been edited by DarkenedEvil (edited 02-17-2001).]

 

[Taz]

Yeah, you're right, it's a delicate subject and we'd probably offend people. I just like to discuss beliefs/theories with open minded people who aren't brainwashed. But there are other sites for that.