"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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never been in this situation

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Been trying to break it off with this girl for a while but she keeps begging to come back and pissing me off again. I finally put my foot down, but she won't leave me alone. I can wait and wait until she gives up I guess... but now she's offering me ANYTHING.

At this point my mind began to race.

How low can a person go? =(
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sexual said:
How low can a person go? =(

My advice? dont find out.
 

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That is good advice. I just wish there was an easier way to get rid of someone without hurting them so bad. I'm going to try the 'lets just be friends' thing again, but somehow whenever I drink she wins me over for that hot make up sex. Hard to program yourself not to give in to women while intoxicated. I found it hard enough just to start remembering to put on condoms while drunk, haha... (hey, don't critisize, most of you know damn well what I mean).
 
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