"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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never been in this situation

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Been trying to break it off with this girl for a while but she keeps begging to come back and pissing me off again. I finally put my foot down, but she won't leave me alone. I can wait and wait until she gives up I guess... but now she's offering me ANYTHING.

At this point my mind began to race.

How low can a person go? =(
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sexual said:
How low can a person go? =(

My advice? dont find out.
 

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That is good advice. I just wish there was an easier way to get rid of someone without hurting them so bad. I'm going to try the 'lets just be friends' thing again, but somehow whenever I drink she wins me over for that hot make up sex. Hard to program yourself not to give in to women while intoxicated. I found it hard enough just to start remembering to put on condoms while drunk, haha... (hey, don't critisize, most of you know damn well what I mean).
 
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