"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Never be like THAT guy

Zapp Brannigan

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I met a girl a little while back. Some of the normal red flags presented themselves, and part of me knew at that point she was trouble. But whenever we talked she seemed like deep down, red flags aside, she might have been a nice girl. One that was actually worth being with. She had a personality that attracts you, and I had this crush that wouldn’t go away. That was until getting the confirmation that I so desperately needed. Not going to name the details, but she’s no different than any of the other chicks who present the same red flags.

There’s this other guy who was always hitting her, and he looked like an idiot every time. He didn’t seem to have a crush either, and was the kind of guy who wanted to f**k whoever he could. This girl is still at the same place of work, and this guy is now chasing her hard because he knows it. He’s going out of his way to park his car next to hers, and I see him hanging out where he thinks he’ll see her next. He’s obsessing over a low quality attention wh0re type who is only slightly pretty, and tries to coast by on her looks. Needless to say this s**t he’s doing won’t get him anywhere, but it stood out to me.

It was a reminder to NEVER be like him. It shows how some guys are so desperate for puzzy they’ll do just about anything, and don't have any kind of self respect. The point of this post is to point out how bad it looks to do what this guy is doing. How it obliterates his already non-existent chances, and comes off as creepy. DON’T DO THAT.

No matter what, keep it together. I had a f**king crush on her, and never did any of that dumb s**t. Meanwhile he doesn’t even care about her, and is doing creeper s**t? No matter what emotions you’re feeling, or how much desire you have to f**k something, keep your head on straight. Chances are this b**ch you’re going after isn’t worth it any way.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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zekko

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It was a reminder to NEVER be like him. It shows how some guys are so desperate for puzzy they’ll do just about anything, and don't have any kind of self respect.
I'm with you, I would never do this. That said, I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up getting in her pants. I see guys like this every day. They don't care about pride, as long as they can get laid. That's all they care about, and they will go to whatever extreme they need to get there.
 

Yewki

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Needless to say this s**t he’s doing won’t get him anywhere, but it stood out to me.
Bro I think you still have feelings for this girl, otherwise I don't think you'd care this much about what he's doing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FCB

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I'm with you, I would never do this. That said, I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up getting in her pants. I see guys like this every day. They don't care about pride, as long as they can get laid. That's all they care about, and they will go to whatever extreme they need to get there.
Yup almost posted the same thing, no shame does well, chasing and caring is the death sentence.
 
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