Man Of Adventure
Master Don Juan
I dont care who you are when it comes to you and women. Sometimes there are just girls out there that like to get an ego boost by dating you and then to blow you off the next time you try to set things up. Thats exactly what happened to me about 5 days ago. I got the number, I got the first date, and I failed to get the second because she decides to leave her phone off and not answer after agreeing about a set time to call. Pretty much from there all I could do is say that its pretty retarded what shes doing and Im not gonna deal with it anymore than I have. Goodbye.
I actually have another situation four days ago where I had a good conversation with a woman, picked up her number, set a time to call for when she said she wasnt busy working, and ended up calling me to specify that she wasnt looking for any kind of relationship because she just got out of a breakup. Again, its pretty frustrating to hear this kind of nonsense....but then again these kind of situations can seriously hang people up.
I can be pretty safe to say these things happen to a lot of guys. Its been pretty ****ty these last few days knowing just because you get a phone number and just because you get that first date doesnt mean that itll last forever. For most physically attractive girls...they obviously dont give a damn as long as they get their attention for the time being. Just sometimes, you gotta know when to quit nomatter how good you are at all this. Im ten times better at this than I ever was back when I started and I can sincerely say that all girls arent worth the effort that we sometimes put out probably for sex. Well, its usually for sex at first but then a good relationship as well in the long run. So what I'd like to say is that nomatter what happens or however badly you may **** up your dates or whatever (I mean its been this way with me for the last like 2 weeks) there will always be more women to meet. There can always be another number to pick up, or another date, or another relationship. Nomatter hung up you may be over an ex or how ****ty you may feel knowing you can never get her back, there will always be another opportunity out there for you to rise up to.
Im saying all this because this is exactly how Im feeling. Im looking for the way to the next level....because thats all I can do until I finally make it there. In the end...Ill know Ill become a stronger person at this. Its how Ive gotten to be where I am now in the first place. So please dont be too hard on yourself when you make those mistakes with women. Sometimes girls are just retarded and its up to you to learn from them so you can try to stop that from happening less and less each time...the flaking, the bull****, the lies, everything they do to try to piss you off and then call them out on it. What nice guys give up on trying to learn and what jerks wont ever be able to beat out of in a girl...the reason. All you can do to figure it all out is to meet more girls. Maybe one day then men can truely understand women. Until then...well never be in the clear.
I actually have another situation four days ago where I had a good conversation with a woman, picked up her number, set a time to call for when she said she wasnt busy working, and ended up calling me to specify that she wasnt looking for any kind of relationship because she just got out of a breakup. Again, its pretty frustrating to hear this kind of nonsense....but then again these kind of situations can seriously hang people up.
I can be pretty safe to say these things happen to a lot of guys. Its been pretty ****ty these last few days knowing just because you get a phone number and just because you get that first date doesnt mean that itll last forever. For most physically attractive girls...they obviously dont give a damn as long as they get their attention for the time being. Just sometimes, you gotta know when to quit nomatter how good you are at all this. Im ten times better at this than I ever was back when I started and I can sincerely say that all girls arent worth the effort that we sometimes put out probably for sex. Well, its usually for sex at first but then a good relationship as well in the long run. So what I'd like to say is that nomatter what happens or however badly you may **** up your dates or whatever (I mean its been this way with me for the last like 2 weeks) there will always be more women to meet. There can always be another number to pick up, or another date, or another relationship. Nomatter hung up you may be over an ex or how ****ty you may feel knowing you can never get her back, there will always be another opportunity out there for you to rise up to.
Im saying all this because this is exactly how Im feeling. Im looking for the way to the next level....because thats all I can do until I finally make it there. In the end...Ill know Ill become a stronger person at this. Its how Ive gotten to be where I am now in the first place. So please dont be too hard on yourself when you make those mistakes with women. Sometimes girls are just retarded and its up to you to learn from them so you can try to stop that from happening less and less each time...the flaking, the bull****, the lies, everything they do to try to piss you off and then call them out on it. What nice guys give up on trying to learn and what jerks wont ever be able to beat out of in a girl...the reason. All you can do to figure it all out is to meet more girls. Maybe one day then men can truely understand women. Until then...well never be in the clear.