So I met this girl a couple days ago. She seemed very interested and was laughing at my conversation with my friend. She kept laughing and listening in. I introduced myself and everything and offered help on her writing assignments. The problem is that I never got her phone number. I got her email only. So I said "Fuvk it!" today and wrote her a short message saying something like "I enjoyed our brief conversation the other day. I would like to take you out for coffee or something when I get back into town sometime next week. Write me back with your phone number and maybe we can meet up sometime next week". It was short but to the point that I want to see her and talk to her some more. We will see if she responds. I sent that a few hours ago. My question is; under the circumstances, was that a good message to send? I was going to say something to get her number that day but I was distracted with my buddy. What you guys think? Think I will hear from her. She is much younger than me though....
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Never asked out a girl on email before....
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