So I met this girl a couple days ago. She seemed very interested and was laughing at my conversation with my friend. She kept laughing and listening in. I introduced myself and everything and offered help on her writing assignments. The problem is that I never got her phone number. I got her email only. So I said "Fuvk it!" today and wrote her a short message saying something like "I enjoyed our brief conversation the other day. I would like to take you out for coffee or something when I get back into town sometime next week. Write me back with your phone number and maybe we can meet up sometime next week". It was short but to the point that I want to see her and talk to her some more. We will see if she responds. I sent that a few hours ago. My question is; under the circumstances, was that a good message to send? I was going to say something to get her number that day but I was distracted with my buddy. What you guys think? Think I will hear from her. She is much younger than me though....
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Never asked out a girl on email before....
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