So I met this girl a couple days ago. She seemed very interested and was laughing at my conversation with my friend. She kept laughing and listening in. I introduced myself and everything and offered help on her writing assignments. The problem is that I never got her phone number. I got her email only. So I said "Fuvk it!" today and wrote her a short message saying something like "I enjoyed our brief conversation the other day. I would like to take you out for coffee or something when I get back into town sometime next week. Write me back with your phone number and maybe we can meet up sometime next week". It was short but to the point that I want to see her and talk to her some more. We will see if she responds. I sent that a few hours ago. My question is; under the circumstances, was that a good message to send? I was going to say something to get her number that day but I was distracted with my buddy. What you guys think? Think I will hear from her? She is much younger than me though....
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Never asked out a girl on email before....
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