"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Never argue over text

Dan08

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Never argue over text guys, always in person.
Just had a little episode with a girl im seeing, called her out on a couple things through text and all it did was make me look like a whiny **** plus I couldn't convey what I wanted to say without coming off as an aggressive douche.
Long story short, I held my hands up for being a slight douche and it's getting sorted at the weekend in person
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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narcissist

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Don't argue ever.

Life is to short for negativity. You don't like something a girl is doing? Leave, don't try and change her with arguments. The negativity that will come out of these quarrels will fill your life with toxicity.

Chase positivity.
 

SgtSplacker

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Texting is only for easy to understand communications dude. No innuendo, sarcasm, joking or arguing it always gets taken the wrong way.

Hey lets hang out later.

What are you doing tonight?

Last night was so awesome!

Lets do it again tonight!

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