"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Never approach a fat girl

MatureDJ

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There is a misconception out there that fat girls have lower standards and chance of rejection is lower with them. Shy guys are often told "start approaching fat girls first to gain confidence" Wrong!

Fat (and ugly) girls actually have higher standards. I don't know why. Are they living in denial? Are they trying to overcompensate for their physical appearance? Whatever the reason, do not make the mistake of thinking just because a girl is fat or ugly she is going to be easy or not have an attitude.

Approaching a fat girl will actually lower your confidence. Why? because when you get rejected by an attractive girl, at least you can justify it in your head "she has many options" but when you get rejected or given attitude by a fat/ugly girl you are like "are you kidding me?"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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