"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Never a Straight Answer!!!

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Because i just sent her a text - calling her would make me look needy - im just trying to figure out how these types of girls should be dealt with?
Ya umm its a tough one. I know a girl like that, we made out once and havent chilled since. I tell her we're gonna chill and she says maybe, but it never happens. I dont care anymore, ill tell her how i wanna bone her and stuff. I figured i have nothing to lose...the weird thing is, its kinda working. But in your case, find some other hotty and keep this on on the side. That we you can see what does or doesnt work.
 

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Thats the kinda stuff that makes you wanna rip your hair out. Well good luck with that, thinking of that situation makes me angry.
 
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