Eric Smith
Don Juan
Greetings, fellow DJs! A lot of people here often talk about how their DFC/AFC days cursed them and of course, I was no exception. Until about a few days ago, I thought I was the biggest loser in my HS until I had a conversation with my sister.
She told me that about 10 girls were asking about me in school to her. I asked if they were attractive and she said most of them were. Shocking. When I was at a party, I was talking to this friend of mine who is a girl that went to the same HS. I brought up the story to her and she said, "Oh, there were a lot of girls that liked you in HS." I was shocked. Why?
A little bit of background info:
I was extremely shy with girls. I had friends (well, later I would no longer consider them friends now that I have a good head on my shoulders) but I never thought girls was an option. I got a number from a hottie in 10th grade but that was it. I thought that I was a masturbating loser going by how my friends acted.
So anyway, she named them off. A few were ugly, some were ok, and she named a couple that were total knockouts. I was floored. I didn't know that it was possible. So I asked, "What about my rep at that school?" She then told me that most girls didn't really give a damn about what they thought considering how most of them were fat losers that were almost as afraid of approaching women as I was.
For years I thought I was dateless!
I then came to a conclusion that I wasted 4 years of prime dating time. 4 years. Gone. I could have done so much in this time but now its all gone.
It also put my life in perspective. I realized that if you're not a troll, there are girls out there that like you, even if you don't realize it. Especially the knockout girls, I definitely want to hook up with them sometime. I know the DJ mentality is to approach every woman but this goes out to the shy DFCs, AFCs, and RAFCs. There are girls that like you, even if you don't know it.
Make sure that you never have a dull moment in your romantic life, let alone your life.
She told me that about 10 girls were asking about me in school to her. I asked if they were attractive and she said most of them were. Shocking. When I was at a party, I was talking to this friend of mine who is a girl that went to the same HS. I brought up the story to her and she said, "Oh, there were a lot of girls that liked you in HS." I was shocked. Why?
A little bit of background info:
I was extremely shy with girls. I had friends (well, later I would no longer consider them friends now that I have a good head on my shoulders) but I never thought girls was an option. I got a number from a hottie in 10th grade but that was it. I thought that I was a masturbating loser going by how my friends acted.
So anyway, she named them off. A few were ugly, some were ok, and she named a couple that were total knockouts. I was floored. I didn't know that it was possible. So I asked, "What about my rep at that school?" She then told me that most girls didn't really give a damn about what they thought considering how most of them were fat losers that were almost as afraid of approaching women as I was.
For years I thought I was dateless!
I then came to a conclusion that I wasted 4 years of prime dating time. 4 years. Gone. I could have done so much in this time but now its all gone.
It also put my life in perspective. I realized that if you're not a troll, there are girls out there that like you, even if you don't realize it. Especially the knockout girls, I definitely want to hook up with them sometime. I know the DJ mentality is to approach every woman but this goes out to the shy DFCs, AFCs, and RAFCs. There are girls that like you, even if you don't know it.
Make sure that you never have a dull moment in your romantic life, let alone your life.