"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Neutralizing The c0ck-block

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You know them. You hate them. They're the uglier friend that refuses to let her friends have willing, consentual sex with them. Are they bitter? Jealous? Drunk? Or just plain evil and want to ruin a few nights in a desperate bid for attention?

How do you neutralize this threat?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chamber36

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you have to remove the girl from her friends so there is nobody to ****-block. If a chick wants to ****block she will. If the friends are cool bring em along
 

glass half full

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this is something the girl needs to deal with, not you. Leave her alone, either she will do what her co-block wants her to, or she will get mad at her and come back for you. But it's not your game. Not worth fussing over.
 

NotoriousGRK

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hello,

What I'm about to tell you may not be the silver bullet. Once there was this girl that had some doubts about getting close to me, it was on campus and I liked her. One day I see her with her friend and talked to her friend also. Since the friend and I got along well, that girl I liked just opened up.

I was friends with a self-proclaimed "mother hen". She was very overweight with an attitude. Turns out she had a thing for me (lol). Anyway getting to the point: her friend got into a relationship after she had a long long talk with her potential bf. She didnt tell me what he told her but she did say that he would take good care of her.

By contrast, the other friend of the mother-hen was in what she would call an abusive relationship and the friend was absolutely convinced that he was the one for her and mother-hen kept out of it.

At the end of the day do you want mother-hen looking over your shoulder as a pre-nuptial mother-in-law? Are you ok with being with a chick who takes orders from the group?

I went out with a group pawn and it is not pretty to say the least along with taking orders from her mother. If I only listened to two of my friends who were actually looking out for me for my well-being when it came to that relationship (and how right they were, years ahead of their time - bless them) instead of siding with her to think that my friends who were looking out for me were jealous. This happened in early high school.
 
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