“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nervous women?

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Well I've been feeling more confident and seem to have no trouble having a nice convorsation even with one of the chicks from my class I got my eye on, however I've noticed that she's seems rather nervous around me just by having small talk. I don't look threatening and have no intention of harming her, but it just seemed strange. She was fumbling some of her stuff while talking to me.

Quick overview of today when we talked last, we're both in graphic design (easiest class ever) and she's shown me some of her work and I didn't over compliment on it, but when I did I wasn't lying. I really was impressed.

Anyway, I'm going to phone # close this on Monday (saying I'll call you if I need ideas on this project so we have something to talk about) just to see if she's interested or not.

We've only seen each other twice and I better make sure I don't just become friends. Has this happened to you guys? What are some ways I could comfort her with kino? :D
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Its quite a good question. I had an encounter with a nervous lady (girl, whatever) this weekend at the bowling alley of all places.

Sometimes its a self esteem thing, you know, they have trouble talking to guys (it happens to girls too). Maybe its because shes interested. I dunno.

Give the girl a call and make a date, i'm sure it'll go fine. Dont talk to long, just enough, then ask her. Let us know how you go.
 

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Originally posted by Silquee Smoove
Yes, you are.
An observation that is actually quite profound on reflection.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by B9
An observation that is actually quite profound on reflection.
ah yes... quite

*continues smoking pipe, sherlock style*
 
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