Nervous laugh story

[spread_love]

I am, to be honest looking for something good (aren't we all?) but there are just far too many clones of girls cloned of that girl and a hundred other girls, do you know what I mean?...when they dress like their favorite "celebs" like seem to adopt some of the nasty attitudes along with it.

Anyway, I think I have found something good and as I am older these days, I would like to start afresh and sweep this girl off her feet, short story, she works in a cafe in the neighborhood's I live in, I often get coffee and bread (so fresh and so good) and we smile at each other, until last week when I introduced myself to her and she gave me a big smile and a nice to meet you and asked about me.

I went in today and we got chatting and I asked her about her plans for the weekend blah blah, she seemed happy to chat and there is a sort of I'm interested in you type look from both of us...it was time to pay for my coffee and custard square (so good and so fresh) and she politely told me it was more than I gave her so I just looked her and she did this nervous laugh thing...I was wondering if it meant anything and what is the best way to ask her out or when basically.

I am sipping whiskey as I write this so please excuse any in-coherences...

thanks for your time in reading this and I appreciate any help

please note, I'm not desperate, I just know what I want and like and having been able to find it for a few years.

 

[edmond]

Go back for more coffee, if she is always, glad to see you, if yes then ask her out, if no then move on?
Do not look to deep into their actions, as most if not all of it is BS.

 

[DJDamage]

so I just looked her and she did this nervous laugh thing...I was wondering if it meant anything and what is the best way to ask her out or when basically.

It could mean something or it could mean nothing. Women tend to be very friendly when they work because its part of their job and their employer knows that if he got a good looking friendly chick on their hands, that is going to help business. Many men end up being dumbfounded and angry that the nice girl that flirted with them was not really interested in them but was just doing her job. Its worth a shot but just know that the odds are no better then meeting other women.

I wouldn't ask her number while she work unlesss she is by herself, or I will just ask her for some drinks after her shift is over.

 

[Kings_royalty]

it was time to pay for my coffee and custard square (so good and so fresh) and she politely told me it was more than I gave her so I just looked her and she did this nervous laugh thing...I was wondering if it meant anything and what is the best way to ask her out or when basically.

She was testing you, or bored at work so she figured you would be fun to flirt with, or 100 other reasons. Either way, it does not matter. What you need to do is take this type of opportunity to crank up her IL, just for the hell of it (that's what I do). The more you crank up her IL, the more 'opportunities' you will see from her.

I would have said something like 'well...maybe you didn't try hard enough' (with a playful smile) then walk away. Then, the next time you go for coffee, don't even bring up what happened before (very powerful), let her do that.

I wouldn't stop in for a while; give her a chance to wonder why you haven't been around. Then when you do finally stop in, get her digits.

 

[joekerr31]

you should have asked her out there and then.

go back in, have another conversation with her, then ask her if shed like to go out sometime.

that's it, all there is to it. not that hard is it?

im nto sure, but im pretty sure i could train a gerbil to do a more complicated tasks

if shes in to you she will say yes. if shes not she will say no. if she doesnt know and wasn't expecting it, she will turn you down, think about it and next time she sees you flirt excessively with you to try and get you to ask her out again.

 

[spread_love]

:rock: Thanks for the great replies and advice all, yeah I am going to ask her out, I mean we have something to talk about because she told me what she was up to for the weekend...I'm still a little shy, I have been ****ed over, cheated on etc...and want to get back on that bike you know.

I came looking for mature and great advice and I got it, I am to be honest afraid of rejection and don't like to put myself out there that much...time to Man up me thinks, after all the prize is ME.

peace

 

[Kings_royalty]

Thanks for the great replies and advice all, yeah I am going to ask her out,

Make sure you build up some tension and excitement first, work on that attraction level or you will fall flat on your face.

Don't take it personally if she turns you down, there good be a 100 reasons why she did...and it's not necessarily because of YOU. She could be married or have a serious boyfriend, you never know.

 

[joekerr31]

if she turns you down just tell yourself that she probably has genetical herpes. youll get over it in no time

 

[spread_love]

Thanks for the great replies and advice all, yeah I am going to ask her out,

Make sure you build up some tension and excitement first, work on that attraction level or you will fall flat on your face.

Don't take it personally if she turns you down, there good be a 100 reasons why she did...and it's not necessarily because of YOU. She could be married or have a serious boyfriend, you never know.

Thanks...I have been quite busy to be honest and I haven't been to the cafe she works at since Saturday...