"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grover_mister

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ok last question

how did u guys overcome that really nervous feeling inside the first time u had sex

its easy to say ur gonna do it ur first time

but its hard to be ready for it in a way... im strugglin with the nerve renking fear in my heart lol even though i want it lol


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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stop over thinking it! oh, and try to do it in a place where no-ones going to walk in, or interrupt ye.
 
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The first time i had sex...hmm...i think u just let it pass...it'll go away. Almost everyone is nervous their first time. I would just let it pass and tell urself to not worry as nature will take its course.
 
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be very careful with that condom though because you don't want nature to run away with its course :p
 
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