"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gangster Of Love said:
I am just playing devil's advocate here. For the same of stimulating convo. How does one get out of the friends zone and go to being FB's? Those guys that did it should come here and write a few articles and show every chump here how to get out of the friends zone and to sex buddies.
It's pretty easy, actually.

Well, the reasons that guys like me that know how to do this is but don't post it is that, well, we don't want chumps stealing our personalities.

Now, deposit $30 in my paypal account and that's another story.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Even if she agrees not to see them she will forever hold this against you that you FORBID her from going.
I told her (again) today I don't want her to see them but I'm fine with her seeing her other friends. She says she won't even see them now cause I have doughts about her and she doesnt want me to break up with her cause of this. She has not done anything yet to make me believe she would be unfaithful besides wanting to see her "good friends" who she fvked when they were drunk...(however that happend) :rolleyes:

lol hard times?? what kind of hard times?? did she get kicked out of her house? was she broke ass?? sexually abused? addicted to crack?? If the answer is none of the above then it ain't no hard time! if the answer is yes to any of the above she then it explains why she *****d herself to every guy friend she knew before she got with you. Why get all of them involve?? save the drama to your mama.
From what I know her step dad abused her a little, molested her sister, cheated on her mom, and took all their money in the divorce. :crazy:

But, despite the things she's done in the past we do have a good relationship. (So I believe)
 

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The thing I want to know most is how her FBs jumped out of the friend zone. I would like to talk to these dudes myself and pick their brains.
 

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Alright this is my last update.

Tonight she told me she isn't going anymore. She says now, she would rather go out of town with me for the weekend to spend time on her birthday. :up: Thats what were gonna do so, there is no need for me to worry anymore.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
From what I know her step dad abused her a little, molested her sister, cheated on her mom, and took all their money in the divorce. :crazy:
that girl is nuttier than a nutcracker!

Chicks with daddy issues like hers are destined to be fvcked up and judging by her orgy banging days as a teen she is right on track.

I.A.F.Y.B. said:
there is no need for me to worry anymore.
Not today....... but from my take on this girl, the wave of problems has just began.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Not today....... but from my take on this girl, the wave of problems has just began.
Indeed it seems but, for now our relationship is good and sex is great. (one of the reasons I keep her around.) If stupid sh!t like this comes up again I will get rid of her a$$.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Indeed it seems but, for now our relationship is good and sex is great. (one of the reasons I keep her around.) If stupid sh!t like this comes up again I will get rid of her a$$.
Heh, the crazy chicks with daddy issues are always demons in the sack. Someone's looking for luuuv.
 
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