"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nervous about 1st day tomorrow!

southpark

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Tomorrows my 1st day at a new school and I cant help but be nervous but I dont wanna mess things up!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JSH

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Best opportunity ever. Make the most of it, i envy you. The most important thing is to be confident.
 

jonny football hero

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Just chill out, you'd be pretty hard pushed to **** up in one day.
 

biker_gixxer

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Originally posted by JSH
Best opportunity ever. Make the most of it, i envy you. The most important thing is to be confident.
Exactly. Confidence my man. People are generally attracted to (not necessarily in a sexual way) a confident person.
 

Bombshell

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Somtimes i feel nervous and had no fking idea why, then i figured out it was excitement =) Like i thought i was nervous before the first day of school but once it came i blew myself away with my confidence, and i dont think ill ever be nervous about meeting new people again.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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